Two of my ex gf's and my ex wife are the mothers of my 5 kids.
Now one ex gf asked me if she could have a boyfriend. Of course I was furious. I mean she is the mother of one of my kids, so she should concentrate on bringing my son up. No way I will allow any other man to have any influence in bringing my kids up. She accepted my seed, now she should be loyal to me.
2006-11-03 17:47:26 · 19 answers · asked by Great Muslim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Loyal to YOU? Because you poked her and got her pregnant? Dude, where do I start. In my country she would own YOU to the tune of several hundred $ a month child support. Do you even bother to send money to support your kids? I would date her, and dude, I am 6'5", you wouldn't want to mess with me. She should concentrate on her kids, yes, and kick your butt out of hers and her kids' lives. I hope she reads this. FIND A DECENT GUY, GIRL. Ditch this overcontrolling "great" egotistical dingleberry. And to you, boy. Get it cut and don't spread more of this misery
2006-11-03 18:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Dat MrE Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no right to be forbidding any of them from being with anyone else, they all are entitled to their happiness, and since it obviously wasn't you, they have every right to find their "Mr. Right"
so which was the 1st one you knocked up? the other 2, by your logic, should've never been your girlfriends cause you should've remained "loyal" to the 1st after implanting your seed
you're so selfish, it's not about you at all, it's about your 5 b@stard kids (well maybe not all of them are bastards, at least not the ones you had with your ex-wife, assuming you were married at the time!)
concentrate on raising your kids and forget about your ex's personal life, it doesn't concern you anymore
2006-11-04 02:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by smarty pants 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she does not owe you anything at all.. she doesn't have to be loyal to someone she isn't even with... she is your EX girlfriend. just because you were together before and had a kid together it doesn't mean she shouldn't be able to have a life of her own.. her love life is none of your business. If you don't want her boyfriend around your kid, then you can discuss that with her, but telling her that she cant have a boyfriend is just ridiculous. I'm surprised she didn't tell you to go screw yourself when you told her that she isn't "allowed" to date anyone. who do u think you are? her father? and even if you were.. she is a grown woman... don't be such an a$$hole. you should want the mother of your child to be happy.
2006-11-04 01:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by shnookumz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not right...you should have been loyal to her and not have children by all different women..right? Afterall, you accepted her to have your "seed"...
Besides, you are not her father, you are your sons father. As long as you are a constant in his life why worry about someone else's influences. Just make sure that she understands you don't want this other man around your son...and when/if things get serious btwn her and this guy...you would like to meet him first to make sure he is okay to be around your son. Hopefully her judgement is good enough to know who she can bring around you guys' son..and when.....
2006-11-04 01:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by Tru-Gem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think shes nuts for even ASKING your permission! Man listen, that type of attitude went out with the middle ages. Unless you put a ring on her finger then who the hell are you to tell her what to do with her life. AND if your relationship with your child is so weak that you FEAR an outside influence then THAT is on YOU. YOUR PROBLEM NOT HERS. Be a strong male influence in your child's life and then you child would never question who his daddy is or who's influence matters.
GROW UP!
2006-11-04 02:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by luscious_tori 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have five children with three women and all of them have broken up with you. Now one of them wants to have a life of her own and you're upset!?
You have NO right to any control over her life. Do you provide child support to her to raise the child you imposed on her? Do you do anything to raise the child? Or was she and the others convenient wombs for your seed?
You appear to be chauvinistic, irresponsible and clueless. No wonder she wants to find someone who may be a whole lot better for her and her son.
2006-11-04 01:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by eriurana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is ur EX. if u did not want the slighest chance of hav n another man influence ur child(& if dats da case then Im sure u were planning on him b n home skooled, right? male teaches hav influences on students 2 ya no) then may b u should of not had sex.
u r in da wrong
ALTHOUGH
i can understand where u r comein from my mother feels da sam way
2006-11-04 01:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger Babe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who have YOU been loyal to?
Who are you to say yes or no?
What kind of weak person is she to ask you?
Are you a man who brings fear into women?
You are the one who has made your children fatherless.
Let the woman get a father to be there with your children.
2006-11-04 01:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by dj_of_raleigh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"SHE ACCEPTED MY SEED AND NOW SHE SHOULD BE LOYAL TO ME"? WHAT KIND OF CRAP IS THAT? YOU HAVE NO IDEA OF WHAT LOYALTY IS.BESIDES THAT THE MINUTE YOU TWO BECAME EX'S ANY LOYALTY SHE HAD FOR YOU BECAME NULL AND VOID.THE ONLY LOYALTY THAT SHE HAS TO HAVE FOR ANYONE NOW IS TO HERSELF(BY NOT FALLING FOR ANOTHER CREEP LIKE YOU) AND TO HER SON(BY FINDING SOMEONE WHO CAN BE NURTURING AND LOVING). AND SINCE YOU BROUGHT UP INFLUENCE HAVE YOU CHECKED OUT THE INFLUENCE YOUR DISPLAYING FOR YOU CHILDREN? I'LL BET YOUR SONS ARE ALREADY LEARNING HOW TO "FORBID" THEIR WOMEN . DO US ALL A FAVOR AND DON'T HAVE RELATIONSHIPS AND CERTAINLY DON'T HAVE SEX WITH ANY MORE US.
2006-11-04 02:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by onejinjer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This may explain why she is your EX girlfriend. I can totally understand that you would not want another man to be a part of your children's lives, but do you really expect her to be alone forever? Do you like being alone?
2006-11-04 01:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by wendygirl1000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋