2006-11-03 17:52:51 · 12 answers · asked by akira 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well l guess it depends on if the past is about you or him.Is it that he is bringing up things about himself, if so if you don't like what he is telling you just tell him you are not interested. Well l guess it doesn't really matter what it is about, just tell him the past is exactly that the past and you two should be living in the future. If he can't do that well l guess you know what your options are. Get rid of him before he drives you insane with the past. You don't really want to marry someone that lives in the past do you ? Hopefully you can work things out, if not better luck with your next boyfriend.
2006-11-03 18:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
Then he can bring up the past all he wants but you won't be around for him to harass with it. People who can't forgive and move on (once an issue has been discussed and resolved) are bad news and not good prospects for long term relationships.
He's only a boyfriend now (not a husband) get while the getting is good.
2006-11-03 17:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by aibnyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you specific that your courting is that great? a guy that relatively loves you unconditionally won't make you sense like the floor under your feet. regardless of if it could look like it or no longer, what your boyfriend is doing is a sort of psychological abuse by skill of forcing you to re-stay those poor moments which you had to undergo. To be completely uncomplicated your boyfriend seems very insecure that your ex has something that he would not. in case you relatively % to maintain your courting, perchance you need to hunt for counseling . yet i might say properly suited may well be to go away. He shouldn't make you sense as in the journey that your previous must be a secret.
2016-11-27 02:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by kittredge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter if the past is about the two of you or him and someone else, the answer is the same. He never got over it, and is still carrying the flame. Perhaps you two need counseling or he needs more time to figure out who he is today.
2006-11-03 17:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to him about the past and comfort him about it. Something is bothering him and you should ask him what's up. Try listening to him about what he is trying to say and you will understand better.
2006-11-03 17:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by ambukiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he keeps bringing up the past. then dump him already!!! your relationship isn't about the past
2006-11-03 17:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him the past! (option)
sounds like he is hurt from it
you must confirm him that the past will not repeat itself again! or just kick him to the curb!
2006-11-03 17:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him not to bring it up. That ought to be enough.
2006-11-03 18:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him would be the easiest then you wont have to listen to a cry baby
2006-11-03 17:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by Avis S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he sits and digs the past he will get skeletons that wont please him ..
Regards
Sameer
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2006-11-03 17:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋