Lately my fiance (who is 22) has a hard time staying hard or isnt able to ***. We have sex at least twice a day. Is there something i can do to help him? Is it me? I know he is very attracted to me still and there isnt anyone else. Help
2006-11-03 17:49:48 · 21 answers · asked by mine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-03 17:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by NATE 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Can you average it in a week or a month?As for twice a day means at least 14times a week.It's quite tough for him to maintain through for the whole month if not missed daily.Depends on what kind of job he's having during the day.If he is doing heavy work,he might be tired after work,Twice a day is not a big problem if he has enough rest for the day and filled up his stomach every meals.It depends on much things which occurs,work pressure,tiring,mood,drugs and many more which concern the weakness.He do need some nutritious food from time to time.You may look for a Doctor's help.
2006-11-03 18:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Borneo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just like many guys fail to realize that the women needs to get worked up before she will achieve orgasm, so will the guy. Find out what he likes--whether it be licking or sucking a certain area, you wearing a certain outfit before the act, etc. --- you get the idea.
Other things that can contribute to not staying hard is distraction and/or stress. Trying to find time to have sex twice a day on top of everything else may be causing him stress. As the others sugggested, possibly slowing it down to once a day, every other day, or something along those lines. If you need it that much, find a toy to take the edge off between.
2006-11-03 18:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As weird as this may seem you might want to slow it down a little. Try doing it a little less often. If it had something to do with you, I don't think you guys would be doing it as often. You know how sometimes the body can adapt to something and then it becomes immune. It works the same way with sex. Let him rest a little and get his groove back and trust me he will stay hard. Enjoy!!!
2006-11-03 17:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of guys do stay hard after sex or 'go down'. lol I'm not really sure how to word that but it's common. It means he's ready for more. Tell him you need to sleep or work with it!
2016-03-19 03:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its three things that this can be, One he may want to be with the other person on the side, because of something you done to turn him off, two, maybe it's the pressure of the early marriage.
More than likely it's none of those, or it least I pray it's not. Third, On the other hand, he may just need a little stimulation; try some porn or have sex with the lights on (so he can see your body), if your cool with that i promise it will work (men are visual).
MR
2006-11-03 18:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by eyeknowiknow 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are some cremes that might help. Also Cut back on the Sex for a few days Give him time to rest and build up fluid and when u have sex again the first thing u should do is orally satisfy him Then have sex. It also may help to play games in the bedroom
2006-11-03 17:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by Viper 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Problems, stress and work can sometimes affect a man's performance. It could be any or all of the three.. try to help him relax or just be understanding. Don't expect too much from him at this time.
2006-11-03 17:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ai 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GOT THIS ONE....!!!! L-Arginine at GNC.... 3-5 times per day will make him hurt(it takes like 2 months)...... 2 makes me hurt and I am 34, also L-lysine 500 mg and lots of Zinc....
L-arginine will do it, as a matter of fact you should try it too for a bit, it simply increases blood flow.....your Cholesterol will get lower, PLUS.......... your DRUNK boyfreind will be able to .....you get the piont college gal????, take a B-Complex before you 2 go to bed................dont be too hung over....trust me it works wonders... I mean the whole thing... I am like a "MOVIE STAR", if ya follow....and so is she... it is great. of course it might be because we are more comfortable w/ eachother????????? HOPEFULLY you do not want to get pregnant, this will cause it.....
2006-11-03 18:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by Johnny C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if its twice a day, then maybe you should take a break for awhile. Let him rest, you would be amazed at what a lil R&R will get you. Let him rest his willy for a day or two, see what happens then.
2006-11-03 17:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by Don A 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋