im stuck i dont know what 2 do?

Question

ok well i love this boy with all my heart but im only 13 and he is 17 ...... and some one else asked me out and i like that person 2 ..... i dont know what 2 do about it ...... and i told the older boy that we sould stop talking because it would be best if we waited but he said that he cant stop talking 2 me because he loves me 2 much ....... and i really do love him

Answer 1

just stay friend for now with both of them. i know what I'm taken about these are words of wisdom I'm telling you. really people get hurt don't mess around with this ok?!
tell yourself that u are going to wait.
oh and if that guy says he can't waite than ask him if your worth waiting for. look him in the eyes when u ask though. guys will respect a girl that wants time for this kind of thing. and respect is important in something like this.

now remember "am i worth waiting for" ask them both why don't yu than u can see both their eyes and look for the truth not what you want to see.

good luck hope u do the right thing.
i'l pray for you.

Answer 2

I think we're talking about infatuation here. It can seem like what we've been told is "love" but it is usually much more transient although it can be an intense feeling.

If you're on reasonably good terms with your parents, talk to them about how you feel. You may think that they wouldn't know what you're going through but they may just surprise you. Also it couldn't hurt to have someone else review with you how you're feeling. You may find that there are some things that need to be addressed before you go any further in the relationship.

Insofar as interacting with the boy, talking is good. Talking should be all that you do. You're both underage for any physical interaction. Also, having been 17 and male, a significant portion of his behavior is being driven by hormonal influences. This is not to say that he may not be trustworthy but he is going to be driven. Just don't be his vehicle.

Answer 3

Thirteen is a wonderful age to fall in love, but my dear, it is only puppy love. I've been there myself. If you think you love this older young man with all your heart. The idea of dating someone else wouldn't even appeal to you. So my advice is, though you may care deeply for the older boy, it is not love, and 13 is too young, to devote yourself to one fellow. The 17 year old will get over it and he may actually be better off with someone closer to his own age because in another year, you'll be jail bate sweety.

Answer 4

you are not in love..you are only 13. You shouldn't even be dating. The 17 year old DOES NOT love you...he is just saying it because you are saying it. Focus on school, ok? You are too young to be worrying about love. What is wrong with American children these days?

Answer 5

for one you are to young to be think of boys and dating 17 year olds. girl just be young dont go growing up if because you think you are in love it sound like to me the older guy just wonts to get into your pants. because if he was a really man he would not be telling a 13year old girl he loves her to much to stop talking to her. The guy is either to ugly to find a girl is age are just waiting to go to jail messing with little girls.

Answer 6

If you really loved him, you wouldn't even like another person.
You are young, you don't need to settle down just yet. Date casually or just have fun with guys as friends. You'll have enough time to worry about commitment and relationships when you are older, enjoy yourself while you can.

Answer 7

as a teen love and like are the same thing, my dear. why don't you go out with both of them. you're not gonna marry either one. of course not at the same time just date both. when i was 16 i went out with 2 guys nobody cared

Answer 8

at any age we love it when people say they love us, it makes us feel good and wanted. there is no reason why you cant be friends with many guys and girls without commiting yourself to just one person. just go out with who you want, there is plenty of time for a one on one relationship. enjoy yourself now and having fun.

Answer 9

YOu are too young at 13 to be dating a 17 yo,
so don't, and remember that at your age
it is natural and normal to have your feelings change,
and change back. typical teen confusion....you're normal.

Answer 10

Er....ummmm....

Give yourself to both of them, the one true guy with say no, he'd rather get to know you, and the prick will say 'LETS DO IT!'

Just a past exerpiance with my sister. hope this helps...as i couldn't fully understand your question.