AND she was invited by his family. We have been together for over 5 years and we're getting married, and they havn't been together for over 11 years and when they were together it didn't even last long...
2006-11-03 17:45:56 · 5 answers · asked by ~mellisa~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It means it's no big deal TO THEM. Your feelings were irrelevant to them. Marinate on that for a sec and then you and your fiance need to strategize on how to deal with his family if you do go ahead and get married.
2006-11-03 18:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by aibnyc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds insensitive to say the least, but maybe your future in-laws have maintained a warm friendship with this ex-girlfriend. You have two choices, from my point of view. You can either insist that your fiance make sure this doesn't happen again because it makes you so uncomfortable, or you can just forget about it and gloat to yourself that you have him and she doesn't.
2006-11-03 17:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With them as your future in-laws, you are going to live in hell, if you marry thier son. If you don't see that, there is nothing we can say to help you. RUN, RUN, RUN!!!
2006-11-03 17:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by bigbore454 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are ovbiously still friendly toward her, but you remember its your wedding and you should decide who is invited not his family, this is your special day, and you should not be made to feel uncomfortable,,congrads!! :)
2006-11-03 17:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by donttalkjustplay05 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds funny but I would say beware .. maybe they like her more then you .. think and talk to them once before you get married
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2006-11-03 18:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋