Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

i have been married for 2 years, dated him for 6 years we are both 24, i want a baby and i dont think hes ever gonna be ready. before i maried him i made sure that kids were still in our plans. we love each other, and have a good relationship in every other area.. he talks about the future and kids in a positive way. but freaks out every time my period is not exactly on time and makes a theatrical thank you jesus when it finally gets here. he will not have sex unless he uses condoms yeah thats plural 2 of them everytime.. and he pulls out. if we dont have condoms we dont have sex. for the last year i have had this desire for a baby so bad. women that i know are having kids that are in no position to have them, and it makes me so jealous -we have 2 very good jobs, a stable lifestyle..dont party. i dont understand it but i know that i am seriously not gonna be having children when i am 30 years old i want to just get over it.. i hate the way i feel towards people with kids

2006-11-03 17:13:53 · 15 answers · asked by jujubeee 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My co-worker seems to be paying extra attention to me since a month back, I'm not sure if he is just being flirty or he is interested in me. pls help!!

We stay a mile apart and one day he called me on my mobile (I didn't give him my number!) and asked if i want to get a lift to work.

I've taken his car couple of times since then, but recently the number of times he came and talked to me increases and most of the time is not work related. Sometimes he'll pass me some cookies or ask me how are things goin'. He's also standing closer than normal when we talk.

But I observe that he is very friendly to other ladies in the office as well, so I'm not sure about the signals that i'm getting. He is very popular with the ladies.

Is there any way I can have a clearer idea (I cant ask him directly)? Is there any possibility that he just simply enjoy flirting and being in the centre of attention?

2006-11-03 17:13:52 · 14 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Singles & Dating

the proper ediquette for a 3rd marriage

2006-11-03 17:13:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He seems interested in me...He keeps talking about dating yet he hasn't called yet...What do you think I should do...I don't want to push him into anything...

2006-11-03 17:11:17 · 5 answers · asked by hippie_chick20 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not a lesbian, but i got really drunk and slept with a woman. I did it to make my husband jealous, because since it was a woman it didn't seem like cheating. But instead he was kind of turned on and now I have another problem. He knows I am not into women, but am able to be a good sport. How can I backtrack?

2006-11-03 17:10:16 · 21 answers · asked by principessa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my man for 5years and I'm in my early twenties and he is in his mid twenties. We have been together for five years and living together for three years. We have gotten through the worst of the worst and things seem to be okay now, but he keeps saying he's still not sure he wants to get married. I haven't said anything about getting married to him, but I would like to get married in a few more years or when the time is right (not rushing). Should I stay with him another few years and hope he wants to get married? I'm scared to be with him for another three years and have been with him for 8years and start all over again, b/c he still doesn't know what he wants to do. Should I try to get my life together and give him space?

2006-11-03 17:09:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for bombay girls

2006-11-03 17:08:09 · 30 answers · asked by bobby.k 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone will do.I am so lonely.Where can I find one?

2006-11-03 17:06:43 · 5 answers · asked by angela 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to tell you all about my life, please give me advice and try not to be too hard on me.
Me and my present husband used to be really good friends for a long time, he knew everything about my old relations and I knew everything about his. About 3 years from our friendship I started to realize that he was in love with me, that was the time when I broke up with my bf that I have been dating (and fighting) for 2 years, I was feeling really bad by that time and my friend was by my side that time. I felt support from him and thought it was love, we started going out and married in about a year. It has been already 7 years from than and just a few monthes ago I felt like I woke up from a long sleep, married, with two children, feeling that this is not my life I'm living. I saw that we were more friends than a couple. That is when the "other" person showed up and now I'm in a really stupid situation - this "other" is 23 (I'm 27), married for 4 years and he is in love with me..

2006-11-03 17:06:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she is single but likes another guy i'm in love with her she does'nt know and I don' t think she has a clue at all

2006-11-03 17:06:17 · 11 answers · asked by BoDeeO 1 in Singles & Dating

the proper ediquette for a 3rd marriage

2006-11-03 17:05:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i'm trying to make a betta income, but i don't know what company is the number 1st make money easy!!! if anyone knows please share...

2006-11-03 17:05:28 · 4 answers · asked by pldjrftb@verizon.net 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-03 17:04:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a crush on her but the more i think obout her the more distant we get we were good freinds but know we dont talk very much anymore im really confesed

2006-11-03 17:04:55 · 1 answers · asked by Daken 1 in Friends

to your wife, girlfriend, fiancee, or partner for giving birth to your beatiful children?

i was just curious if men out there are actually thanking their partners for giving birth to their kids..my bf has not said thank you and its been 5 months..i jsut think its appropiate for men to show their appreciation towards women who go through alot just to have kids..

2006-11-03 17:04:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know many ppl that get the girl with their car. I have a NICE car, and family has tons of money. But it will not work for me. I want a gold digger. Little help anyone? THANKS!

2006-11-03 17:03:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is turning 22. trying to stay under 50 dollars. thanks for any suggestions.

2006-11-03 17:02:39 · 7 answers · asked by tiffany m 2 in Friends

i'm a single mother looking for a serious relationship,is it posible having an agreement not to have kids.

2006-11-03 17:02:05 · 7 answers · asked by cherrielissa_amodia 1 in Singles & Dating

A 5'6 132lb, brown-haired ltbrown eyed, somewhat pale, kind, virtous, all around good girl.The Swimmer
_OR_
A 5'2 98lb, brown hair/eye sweet, understanding. considerate, accepting and forgiving, tan, perfectionist. The gymnast/Dancer.

Which one and why?? both are pretty and smart. Choose. Thanx!!
The swimmer has never even dated b4 and hates even thinking about having sex b4 marriage.
The gymnast has a hott bf who gives her diamond bracelts every week.
The gymnast's zip is 60010(one of the wealthiest in the US) whereas the swimmer is an average girl who is serious and caring
The swimmer hates athletic guys and the gymnast likes guys with great abs.:-)
The swimmer is stronger but the gymnast isall around smaller. She is very flirty whereas the swimmer is very shy.

Who would you choose and why??

2006-11-03 17:01:21 · 11 answers · asked by Makoa 1 in Singles & Dating

Or with a group date. And not a sexual date, just swimming.

2006-11-03 17:00:21 · 10 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Singles & Dating

On Xmas day 2004, my sister and I had a heated argument. Her husband got involved and words were exchanged. My BIL told me that my life was virtually hopeless. I made the statement that my father's death at an early age had caused me to suffer from depression and then said, "At least you still have your father".
In Aug 2005 his father died suddenly and he did not want me to know. My sister gave my mother clear instructions that her husband did not want me to know about his father's death. My mother was very puzzled and my sister said it was because of the comment I had made - that at least he still had a father.
I did not know his father nor did I have any association with him. He died of heart complications. To this day, he still does not know that I know. He told my sister it would mean the end of their marriage if I knew. He has convinced my sister that I am responsible for his father's death and he dosn't want me to know.
It is all so upsetting - we havn't spoke in 2 yrs

2006-11-03 17:00:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-03 16:59:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 16:58:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How should I feel i`m married and a lot of the time I want out I`m with someone who doesn`t respect me he`s ungreatful it`s` all about him.4yrs ago I died............my heart just stoooooooped,i wasn`t breathing they had to do CPR on me the nurses &doctors brought me back but be4 that they call my whole family at 11;30pm tellingthen 2get 2 the hospital now.everything i`m saying is second info because I was in an coma,plus a breahting machine breathing for me.My husband doesn`t respect me.I know this may be cold but sometimes just they should not have done CPR on me.I just feel bad.THANKS

2006-11-03 16:58:47 · 5 answers · asked by MRS.K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

On my girlfriend's xanga, at the end, is this line: "the closer we get, the guiltier i feel. every smile im sending is something hidden and we know it. but i cant stop, and i dont really want to. "
It kinda worries me. Could there be someone else, or am I reading this wrong somehow and shes talking about, I dunno, me (even though we're OPENLY dating)? I'd like to think she wouldnt put something like that there she KNOWS I would read, if there is something going on.. but Id just like an outside opinion.. thanks.

2006-11-03 16:58:35 · 17 answers · asked by Jeremy 2 in Singles & Dating

I went over to a friends apartment, mind you he's married with 3 kids and we're just friends, we talk and play chess together, there isn't anything going on, well when I was there my boyfriend called me, I told him where I was and who I was with but he still thinks that I was hiding something from him. And now he thinks that I did something wrong...how can I get him to believe that I didn't do anything but sit there and talk?

2006-11-03 16:57:57 · 9 answers · asked by Bee 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel girls are the most wonderfull personalities who has to be treated in a right way and not as a sex object.how many of u feel the same way.

2006-11-03 16:57:16 · 18 answers · asked by Mischeifs @ 24 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls can answer this too.

My opinion.....Medium build with nice curves, not so skinny you think they are sick. 36 c or d's. Size 10-14 Medium to long hair.
And brownish red hair......suprised it isn't blond...lol

2006-11-03 16:57:10 · 11 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-03 16:55:48 · 13 answers · asked by the Dubai wonderer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies, would you french kiss your ex-husband if his teeth were all rotted out? I had a reunion with my ex- husband after 17 years this past summer. We didn't do anything except go out to dinner and talk about the old times, but I couldn't believe when I noticed his teeth were really gross and decayed. He wanted to kiss me, but I turned my head. Am I cruel or do I just have higher expectations?

2006-11-03 16:55:26 · 23 answers · asked by annie_bananie066 2 in Marriage & Divorce