On Xmas day 2004, my sister and I had a heated argument. Her husband got involved and words were exchanged. My BIL told me that my life was virtually hopeless. I made the statement that my father's death at an early age had caused me to suffer from depression and then said, "At least you still have your father".
In Aug 2005 his father died suddenly and he did not want me to know. My sister gave my mother clear instructions that her husband did not want me to know about his father's death. My mother was very puzzled and my sister said it was because of the comment I had made - that at least he still had a father.
I did not know his father nor did I have any association with him. He died of heart complications. To this day, he still does not know that I know. He told my sister it would mean the end of their marriage if I knew. He has convinced my sister that I am responsible for his father's death and he dosn't want me to know.
It is all so upsetting - we havn't spoke in 2 yrs
2006-11-03
17:00:02
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