My co-worker seems to be paying extra attention to me since a month back, I'm not sure if he is just being flirty or he is interested in me. pls help!!
We stay a mile apart and one day he called me on my mobile (I didn't give him my number!) and asked if i want to get a lift to work.
I've taken his car couple of times since then, but recently the number of times he came and talked to me increases and most of the time is not work related. Sometimes he'll pass me some cookies or ask me how are things goin'. He's also standing closer than normal when we talk.
But I observe that he is very friendly to other ladies in the office as well, so I'm not sure about the signals that i'm getting. He is very popular with the ladies.
Is there any way I can have a clearer idea (I cant ask him directly)? Is there any possibility that he just simply enjoy flirting and being in the centre of attention?
2006-11-03 17:13:52 · 14 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't hang out with him outside the work environment, so that's kind of difficult to gauge. He does asks me what i do after work or during the weekends, but he doesnt suggest anything.
2006-11-03 17:27:32 · update #1
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2006-11-03 17:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 12:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arghhh, I hate when someone is flirty and you can't figure them out. It sucks!
I have a possible solution. Next time you find yourself with him in a situation that is outside of your work environment try to bring up the issue of office romance in a subtle way. See what he says. Or bring up that he is flirty. Maybe this will give you some insight into what he is thinking and what his motivations are. Hope that helps.
2006-11-03 17:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by acvader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to flirt. If he is treating other women about the same that he treating you, I'd say that it probably doesn't mean anything. He's probably just playing everyone. I think you should be cordial but keep your distance for the time being. You could get hurt if you get yourself all worked up emotionally and then find out the guy is a jerk. There have got to be other fish to fry out there - go find one.
2006-11-03 17:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well be on watch ! Be more keen observer. Who knows its his ego trip to be surrounded by ladies... Be natural in dealing with him.... If you would find him extra caring with you other than ladies yousaid, that might be a sign he likes you yet a month time is not to know him better... Asking him directly? It depends... If you have the chance to ask , its ok but see to it that when you ask it should be related to the topic you are talking with so its not obvious.Take your time.
2006-11-03 17:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something's definitely happening between him and you. Getting your number. Lending you the car. No man goes to those lengths unless somethings happening or gonna happen. Sure he flirts with other girls but I'm sure he does go to such extents with them. He's just being a male and being friendly. C'mon now you and him are not even going so you cant expect him to be with you alone
2006-11-03 17:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by Max360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be that he is a natural flirt. Or he enjoys your company as a friend. Or he is dropping hints that he wants to ask you out and is trying to make you jealous with the other girls. All depends on what your instincts tell you and what you really feel you should do.
2006-11-03 17:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with that guy... he might have some ulterior motives..... so watch out... or probably his ego was just challenged seeing you.... that is why he is looking at you in a special way..... come on.. most of us guys do that if we need something!!!!
2006-11-03 17:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just fishing and trying to hook whoever is biting at the time, I would steer clear of him if I were you.
-NmD!
2006-11-03 17:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the question is, do you like HIM, and you should slowly but surely work your way from there:)
2006-11-03 17:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by shaydn e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋