Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

lately ive been very curious about having a 3 sum....with my bf and my best friend....but my bf doesnt want to...ewat should i do???

2006-11-03 17:39:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah my EX dumped me for being to shy and i wouldent make out with him!!!!(at a party) its ok though!! it happend a while back

2006-11-03 17:38:48 · 13 answers · asked by bria<3 2 in Singles & Dating

I cant feel anything just pain in my chest

2006-11-03 17:36:08 · 4 answers · asked by lee 1 in Singles & Dating

I just met back up with my crush that I hadn't spoken to in five years and I'm obsessing over whether he likes me. Well we got together last night and ended up kissing for two hours. I had to leave just before we would have had sex and he was really disappointed. But before I left we made plans to get together next week. He even said he would break plans he already had with his friends so he could spend Wednesday night with me. Do you think he likes me or does he just want sex?

2006-11-03 17:36:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom sais I have to be a virgin until marriage. I don't mind I agree because of my own beliefs. But my sister lost her virginity when she was 16. My mom yelled at her and wouldn't speak to her for weeks. My older brother is 16. My mom has been encouraging him to date girls since he was 14. She really wants him to have sex so she made him go to a party tonight. She sais it's different for girls. They have to be ashamed of themselves for even thinking about it. They also have to do all the housework and and cook. I've been cooking for the family since I was 9. I've been doing the cleaning. My mom calls my brothers girly if they do the dishes. I really want to by Gears of War on the 8th but my mom sais video games are for guys. :o I don't know about you but that's ****** up. I kick *** at games. I've been playing for a long time but she's been mad at me lately.

What do you think about this remedialness.

2006-11-03 17:35:17 · 16 answers · asked by RooRoo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so there is two boys that i like at my house...one is my age(14) the other is a year younger than me but he acts so much older. the 13 yr. old always holds me in his arms and hugs me and stuff but i dont now if he likes me... the 14 yr. old is hott!!!!!...well so is the 13 yr old...but its not all about looks right? please help!

2006-11-03 17:33:02 · 15 answers · asked by jenackie 2 in Friends

I knew him in high school.We were once together but it didnt last for long.Then we lost contact for like 3 years.In my 3rd year of uni,I found him again.I still liked him but he got a gf at that time.I was about to graduate so I got 2 choices:go back to my home country or apply for permanent residency there.I asked him if he wanted me to stay,but he said he couldnt be with me.So I left.However,I still apply the PR offshore and its now in progress.may take 1 year to get it.Recently he broke up with his gf,and last week I went back there to see him.We got back together and we are so in love.Im not sure when I can go back and how its gonna work.We are just trying every single way to see each other.Could it just be passion?but I really love him,after so many years.Its just hard.We both regret so much why we wasted so many yrs b4.Last week we were so happy together in those 5 days but now we r so far away from each other.Should I just ask him to move to somewhere closer to me?wt abt the LT?

2006-11-03 17:32:29 · 23 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 17:32:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-03 17:32:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for adults only.....

2006-11-03 17:30:39 · 18 answers · asked by diana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My gf is only 20 and I'm 26 years old. My gf is Filipina and I'am Indonesian. She keep telling me to do. Our relationship was increase drama in relationship. She told me "i'm not good kisser". She is not care how i feel right now, until i cry. I became depressed and poor communicate with others. I do still love her but I concerned that she might come to see her X out to Texas. SHould I leave her? or Give her 2 wks spaces?

2006-11-03 17:30:36 · 18 answers · asked by Herry S 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright ladies, I can not get this girl out of my head! Please help me! This girl that i like just broke up with her bf. Whenever we talk with eachother we get into this small arguments that make her friends say we look like a cute couple. Im not sure how to ask this girl out since she just broke up with her bf and i dont want to be aggressive or should i? I really like this girl and when we talk i can feel the chemistry but im not sure if she feels it too. How can I ask her out? How can i tell if shes interested in me? Keep in mind that i only see this girl like twice a week. I cant get this girl out of my head! Can sum1 give me some GOOD advice? I really dont want to mess this up!

2006-11-03 17:30:10 · 8 answers · asked by Krazydude111 2 in Singles & Dating

So we've been going through some pretty deep stuff. She is really out of touch with herself right now and it's been a real strain on both of us. It's too long a story for now. If you really want more details, go ahead and check out my questions. I may have a books worth of them. Anyways, she goes to lunch w/ her friends who proceed to tell her they are concerned as well. So, afterwards she comes over sobbing for several minutes. Finally she calms down, we're kinda cuddling in my bed. One thing leads to another and, well, yeah, it happened (but she instigated it). So, just sorta laying there, w/ an awkward silence, staring in each others eyes for a minute or two. I ask her what's on her mind, say she looks inquisitive. After a pause she says, "I think I need some time to re-find myself." What just happened? This girl has been physically and emo. drained for a while, but I've tried to be there. She is just too proud to ask for help or support. Was that a break up?

2006-11-03 17:29:20 · 13 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys! I need the answer to a rather perplexing problem I have. I am an attractive strawberry blonde with great curves and a lovely smile. I get flirted with a lot - at restaurants, while shopping, at parties, anywhere. However, I have NEVER been asked for my number. I find it rather confusing when a guy is very much interested in me and doesn't attempt to persue it any further. Any help for a confused, single girl?

2006-11-03 17:28:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i still dont know if me and my ex are going to get back together or not we talk here and there and spend a little time together like for instant i told him that i was going to move in the same complex as him and he asked me if i was going to be able to afford the rent or not and i told him yeah and then he said that he was happy for me and also that he would get some money or rent taking off for him and he said "arent you the bomb". and i told him that i wasnt moving in until dec. and that my rent is going to be a little more than his and he asked me "how much is mine" and then later he told me that he got some furniture. i said cool then the next day i asked him if we could go running but he txt me back and said he would but he plans with friends then the next day after he txt and asked me if i was going running i said sure and then he said that he would have to get his stuff from his ex ***** house that she took from the apt. but im not for sure if he did or not then today he sounded

2006-11-03 17:28:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To be completely honest i have never really "dated", but have gone out places with girls. I always hear the line "just wait for the right one" i've been waiting and it can be a long process. I'm in college now and i see girls left and right, but feel no "connection" so i don’t rush it and i wait for the right girl. There are something’s i don’t do like ask girls on a date over the internet cause thats not me, i like to meet people in person show them my personality and know theirs too. People love my personality i have the best since of humor guaranteed you wont find someone like me, every sentence will make you laugh even in the saddest event's i can get people to laugh. I love to see people laugh cause it makes me feel good. I guess what i'm trying to say is that "i cant understand why i don’t have a GF? If you ladies and gents could give me some solutions why that would be great i'm free anytime, thanks.

2006-11-03 17:27:54 · 5 answers · asked by Soren 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 17:27:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its about me and my fiancee. he has been my best friend for a long time now before we decided to tie the knot . he was always very loyal and faithful to me and no one in my familly or friends can ever think wrong about him. he is in merchant navy. now my problem is that he was about to board his ship from a country recently (spain). i saw in his mobile a website . and to my shock it was a dating site for spain and it was seen the day next to which he was supposed to take his ship. is he bluffing me and dating people on my back ? all in all mariners are known for stuff like this.should i ask him directly? or how should i know?

2006-11-03 17:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by dimdim 1 in Singles & Dating

When going out on a first date or so.

2006-11-03 17:22:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister in-law is a pathological liar, manipulator, and borderline personality disorder. When she's having a good day...she's a wonderful person, but when she's having a bad day...it's AWFUL!! She puts her kids through hell as well as the rest of her family. Her daughter is 14 and very defensive of her mom, she thinks her mom is just fine and that everyone is just mean to her. Should I try to talk to her about her mom or just leave it alone and let her realize it on her own? I just worry about their well being and that it will be too late.

2006-11-03 17:21:27 · 22 answers · asked by Hunnybunny00 2 in Family

My parents are cool with everything, so it's not a prob convincing them. (as long as i keep my grades up) the thing is, i'm not sure if i am ready. there's this one guy i like who is 14. he's deeply religious. he's a nice freshman. i believe he is responsible. we would NOT do anything above w/e we can handle.

i skipped 3 grades, so i'm a junior right now. i'm not 'pressured' into doing anything at the moment, dating-wise. it's just that my friends, who are 16 and 17, are dating and seem to enjoy it. i honestly believe that i am as mentally (if not physically) mature as my best friends. (don't get me wrong, i'm not like...an underdeveloped 13 yr old) we talk about stuff that's interesting to us all, not just them or me.

do you think i'm ready? or will i just 'know' when i am?

2006-11-03 17:20:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok theres this girl i really like and have asked out once and she said no
shes going out with some1 else now and she told me that i prolly will never have a chance with her. how should i try and forget about her

2006-11-03 17:20:37 · 9 answers · asked by ggtightend 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like this hot guy in my college. whenever i see him i get really really wet just like that. how exactly does this happen? why does this happen?

2006-11-03 17:19:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've lost so many possible crushes over the years. it's very frustrating. so i have this new crush. he's nice. yea.

well...lately i think i've been too desperate. at least i think so. should i totally back off until he's used to me? or what?

2006-11-03 17:19:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our families have known each other since I was about 3 (now 31). The last time I saw her was probably about 10 years ago. I want to stay around $20.

2006-11-03 17:19:11 · 8 answers · asked by So far away 2 in Friends

I still think about her 1000 times a day everyday. HELP ME PLEASE!

2006-11-03 17:18:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean that if we want to talk with our friend through headphones(voice messages) do we install any special program

2006-11-03 17:16:52 · 6 answers · asked by archana shah 1 in Friends

I kept thinking about a scenario where say you're married, you have a nice and caring wife. But us (guys,men,husbands) while walking on the street never get wooed by passer-by, either walking ones or people in their cars and probably never will, this is the way society is, people don't tease guys. But say your wife is walking down that road, and is attracting lot of attention from everyone (from people in their cars and people walking by), and she is really appreciates this kind of attention coz it makes her feel younger and beautiful, and if your wife is that kind of women who likes attention a lot, she might just jump to bed with the most courteous guy (someone who makes her feel on top of the world). I know that not all women are like this, so some might think i'm a p-r-i-c-k for saying this. But this is just a thought that came to me, it made a little bit of sense and i wanted to share it with everyone.

2006-11-03 17:16:48 · 7 answers · asked by bchboy_998 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a great job that I enjoy. Im not the greatest looking person, which hurts. But my family has a lot of money, as do I. I have built my own life, but everyone knows me due to family. I DO want a gold digger because they are much easier to deal with, and do not get attached. I have a nice Mercedes. And a Mazda Rx-7 project car. However, I can not get noticed. Is this because I am portrayed as an asshole?

2006-11-03 17:15:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know I've been asking for advice about my husband. However, things seem to be getting worse and I haven't spoke to him in 4 days. I tried to tonight when I got in from work, but he seemed a little bit upset that "I woke him up to actually talk to him because he was in a deep sleep". My husband doesn't go to work anymore, he's on FMLA every week for the past 11 months, most of the time in consecutive weeks, doesn't help around the house, except to do the dishes when he feels like it, my parents have our 2 children almost every day while I am at work and he is not, he's ALWAYS gone from home, usually 2 to 5 or 6 hrs. at a time and doesn't even call. He's been telling me little lies all the time, such as I'm returning something to my friends house real quick and I'll be right back, but doesn't show up back home until hrs. later, or I have to go check on his place that his sibling is living in because she thinks the stove caught on fire only to tell me an hour and 1/2 later

2006-11-03 17:15:23 · 25 answers · asked by Jynxed 1 in Marriage & Divorce