Alright ladies, I can not get this girl out of my head! Please help me! This girl that i like just broke up with her bf. Whenever we talk with eachother we get into this small arguments that make her friends say we look like a cute couple. Im not sure how to ask this girl out since she just broke up with her bf and i dont want to be aggressive or should i? I really like this girl and when we talk i can feel the chemistry but im not sure if she feels it too. How can I ask her out? How can i tell if shes interested in me? Keep in mind that i only see this girl like twice a week. I cant get this girl out of my head! Can sum1 give me some GOOD advice? I really dont want to mess this up!
2006-11-03 17:30:10 · 8 answers · asked by Krazydude111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is only one way to find out if you both have that "chemistry", Ask her out!, You have 2 chances, a week. You won't know till you ask, forget advice, you need the guts to take a chance.Those who sit a round waiting for the right sign, or the perfect moment, end up just sitting with the thoughts in their heads,take action.
2006-11-03 17:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she just broke up with a guy... give her some room.. however, be a the good friend you are, and tell her you are there, whenever she wants to talk.. about anything..
As someone who's been through this myself, it was good to know that a guy I liked, but was not going with, really cared..
Wait a while, and then ask her to do something with you.. like in a public place..library, book store, a walk around the mall..when I was asked to go, I wasn't ready to, right away, but I DID go, after a few weeks, and was so happy I took him up on it.
I fell in love with him. I was 21. We ended up together for almost 4 years..Then I was ready to get married, and sadly, he wasn't..
We both married different people a year and three months apart.
We both ended up divorced..
In the end, I think we wished we would have married each other..
We are both happy with our life's now.. but I remember how loving and attentive he was.. it was such a shame he changed..
If you want her, and u DO get together.. make sure u r in it to win her for good, and try to keep things new and fresh.. don't let it die.
Best of life and love to u!
2006-11-04 01:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by DivinePath 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would wait a bit on asking her out since she just got out of a relationship and you don't want to be her rebound or have her be vulnerable. You should deffinetly not be aggressive. When the time comes ask her out in a very cute way and something that would jsut be too sweet but leading so she would want to go on a date to see what it would have in store as like a surprise. Drop hints about liking her and flirt and if she flirts back then you have your answer. If she is in your head and you can't get her out then maybe she is suppose to be there.
2006-11-04 01:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, can a Guy help? Bottom line dude, in this world you cannot be afraid of rejection. You will also greatly benefit with women in general if you avoid pressuring them. There is nothing wrong with sharing your feelings with someone, as long as you are prepared to accept their response. Besides, if you really think about it, it's better to know as opposed to wondering. You'll waste alot of time, usually for no real reason.
2006-11-04 01:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by theminnguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her how she feels and if she feels good then just straight out tell her or try to get to know her real better and she might start to feel the chemistry too and then you could be in for a shot with her
2006-11-04 01:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out ! get it over and done with! stop driving yourself crazy!if she likes you she will accept if she does not it was never meant to be!at least you will know! so gather all your courage and go for it!stop beating around the bush!!good luck!!
2006-11-04 01:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by pricebazoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be straight up
i love a straight up guy
nothing is ever like a straight up guy.
<3
2006-11-04 01:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by tessie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try to get over it...is best to...
2006-11-04 01:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by az a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋