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I knew him in high school.We were once together but it didnt last for long.Then we lost contact for like 3 years.In my 3rd year of uni,I found him again.I still liked him but he got a gf at that time.I was about to graduate so I got 2 choices:go back to my home country or apply for permanent residency there.I asked him if he wanted me to stay,but he said he couldnt be with me.So I left.However,I still apply the PR offshore and its now in progress.may take 1 year to get it.Recently he broke up with his gf,and last week I went back there to see him.We got back together and we are so in love.Im not sure when I can go back and how its gonna work.We are just trying every single way to see each other.Could it just be passion?but I really love him,after so many years.Its just hard.We both regret so much why we wasted so many yrs b4.Last week we were so happy together in those 5 days but now we r so far away from each other.Should I just ask him to move to somewhere closer to me?wt abt the LT?

2006-11-03 17:32:29 · 23 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

23 answers

Worked for me. Happily married now!

2006-11-03 17:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

At first I was going to simply answer "no". But, it sounds like there is something lasting in your attraction for each other. It would be a shame to miss a great opportunity to be with someone forever. I think you need to take some time together and consider all the possibilities. Then, if it looks like a solid relationship, find a way to be together. Distance may make the heart grow fonder, but fondness doesn't last very long.

2006-11-03 17:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1 0

He just recently broke up w/ his long term ex gf. you want to give him some time to heal so that he won't rebounce on you. Long distance does work if you are both commited to it. It takes alot of patience, communication and trust. That's the begining of a long distance relationship. I am now married to my long distance boyfriend. I was friends w. my husband at the begining for a yr before getting hook up with him. He lives in East coast and I was in the West coast. We tried to see each other every 2 months. It was expensive. We were able to have a long distance relationship before he decide to move to west coast. After moving here we gave each other sometime to really be together. A yr later we got married. I tell ya it wasn't easy having a long distance. We both put alot of effort and dedication into this relationship. I believe you and your boyfriend will work out if you both try. good luck

2006-11-03 17:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by uniqaznmeg 3 · 1 0

The most important thing is to not jump into anything suddenly!! Give the relationship sometime before changing your life for it. Give it a few months over the phone and visiting, and if that works for a while then chances are you will be able to make it when you are together. Just make sure that any decision you make it is for you and what you want! Don't change your entire life for someone unless you know the relationship is solid.

2006-11-03 17:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 1 0

i'm in an prolonged distant relationship now. We communicate prevalent. yet to be truthful, i'm shifting nearer to my Love next month. i do no longer be responsive to how long we could have made it long distance. that's amazingly confusing. I advise which you talk inclusive of your better half approximately getting mutually interior the destiny. You relationship would stay to tell the tale it understanding which you would be mutually interior the long-term.

2016-12-09 02:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes long distance relationships work. I live in Adelaide South Austraila and my other half lives in Swaziland. We love each other just as much now as when we first did when we met. If your love is strong distance is no problem. I speak to my babe 5 times a week and we send each other emails.
So some may say No, No, No. I say Go for it. Yes, Yes, Yes

2006-11-06 01:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by Aunty Jules 3 · 1 0

It sounds like you two are very happy and love each other. I would ask him to move closer, or if possible, you move closer. I am proof that long-distance relationships work. My husband and I met on-line on a single's website. He was living in Montana (U.S.A) and I was living in Ontario (Canada). Well, one of us did move closer (we were then only less than one hour away from each other) and eventually we got married. If you love each other, it's worth it to relocate to be close. Don't give yourselves anything more to regret. Good luck!!

2006-11-03 17:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by newmum06 2 · 2 0

I can tell you "long distance r/s" DOESN'T lasts! Especially, caucasians like you guys are even harder, I hope you get what I'm trying to say. Infidelity is increasing in asian countries, not to even mention high infidelity rates are so popular in western countries. Think about it carefully. Can you guarantee he or you will not have a change of heart after long distance separation? No one dares to gaurantee you. But anyway, my concern to you is NOT ask you to break up with him, is just to make sure your decision made will not be wrong.

2006-11-03 17:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1 0

If it didn't work or last the other times..............why would it work now? Perhaps its just the passion of the moment!
If he wanted to be with you more, he would move closer to you. Generally speaking, people seem to enjoy someone that lives within 5 to 10 miles.
Relax enjoy the moments and move on to a more lasting relationship. Thanks for the memories!!

2006-11-03 17:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by rosesbloom7 2 · 0 0

no, don't think long distance relationships work. i had a little experience with that. i actually feel in heat with a guy on myspace. we talked im and everything . then all of a sudden. he disappeared. what did i do . i don't know. i am still trying to get him to talk to me. and he won't. after 3 months. it's no good. too many miths.

2006-11-03 17:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by zenasrager 3 · 1 0

Life is a miserable cycle, what goes comes back, all the time. Watch.
And for your info, long-distance relationships never work. There is just too much data on the ground to support that, and you can't miss it.

2006-11-03 17:37:08 · answer #11 · answered by Trinity 4 · 1 1

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