What do you do if you still cant get your ex-finance out of your head after 1 year?

Question

I still think about her 1000 times a day everyday. HELP ME PLEASE!

Answer 1

So, your basically saying that you would like to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you and your willing to live that way?

I really think that you have more going for you than that. you may not understand why there was a break up and for that matter, she may not have told you the truth in the first place, so who cares what her thoughts are on the subject.

Did you ever hear the saying "There are lots of fish in the sea?"
well, get out there and start swimming....you will probably find one that totally idolizes you,makes you feel like a million dollars, makes every waking minute worthwhile and you are spending all of this time sulking.
they say there is someone for everyone on this earth, maybe you had to learn from this one in order to find the right one. Okay, you learned a lesson now get your house clean, buy some new (woman magnet) clothes, get your hair cut and get out there, she is waiting so stop taking so long......

Answer 2

A year seems awfully long after a break up but it really isn't. Time will give you the answer that you need. Get involved in some activities that keep you active. I have been out of a important relationship for over two years and just starting to feel like my life is much happier again. Still feel pain from time to time but I know I am healing now and in time I will be back on the market. I went back to fast last time and ended up in a similiar situation. This time I am letting time heal me first.

Answer 3

When you thought you had the ONE, but the relationship ends, it can really leave you feeling lost. It is hard. I know. Even if you are dating more attractive, younger, and girls who are better in many ways it is hard.

Here is what helped me some:
I stop looking at our pictures. I put away everything that reminds me of her. I stop listening to love songs. I got out there and went to hang out with friends. I got more active in work. I got involved in things that I care about that do not involve relationships. I just started to do things that helped me stand on my own as a person.

Trying to replace her might just lead to more problems because each time you are with a new girl, you will compare that girl to your ex-fiancé and to be honest, the new girl doesn't have a chance if you really loved your ex. Love is much more powerful than lust, beauty, wealth, power, fun, etc... I know this is a fact, because after my ex and I split, I dated some women who were simply amazing, but I found ways to tear them apart and find something I felt like I just couldn't stand. It was stupid because all of these women were high quality, intelligent, attractive women who I should have felt fortunate to have even been with.

The more you loved her, the longer it will take to move on. Just know that there will come a time when you will be able to look back and have good memories of her, but not feel like you can't survive without her. This is a painful period of time and it might last years, but slowly over time, the pain will become less and less and someone new will come into your life that will be even better than your memory of her.

Don't give up hope. Your future girl is out there.

Answer 4

If there is no chance you will get back together with her you need to move on and date other people. It might be a blessing in disguise although it doesn't seem like it at the time. I was engaged a couple times before I found my husband. I shudder to think what my life would've been like if I would've married either one of the first two guys. Yikes, in hindsight it would've been a huge mistake.

Your soulmate is out there. Go find her. I found my husband through a dating service.......we've been happily married for nearly 9 years.

Answer 5

Admit you love her, still, and want her still,
and taht you don't have her anymore.
Tell yourself, I don't want someone who doesn't want me,
and tell yourself that you're glad you loved her
and had her while you did, and won't regret that,
but say too, that you are like a million others in that,
and that you are going to find someone else now.
That's what being a man is all about...living with lost love.

Answer 6

SHE WAS A SOMEONE THAT YOU LOVE AND WANT TO
MARRY SO IT VERY NATURALLY THAT YOU STILL HAVE
FEELING FOR HER, BUT IT BEEN A YEAR, AND IT TIME
MOVE ON. START DOING THINGS THAT WILL GET YOUR
MIND OFF HER GET A HOBBY.. STARTING GOING OUT WITH
OTHER PEOPLE. AND THINK LIKE THIS, AS YOUR SELF IS
SHE SITTING AROUND THINK ABOUT ME,NO, SHE MOVE ON
TIME FOR YOU TO GET BACK IN TO THE GAME AS WELL.

Answer 7

Call an exterminator, just remember why your not together anymore and find a girl to take interest in.

Answer 8

You wait.