My parents are cool with everything, so it's not a prob convincing them. (as long as i keep my grades up) the thing is, i'm not sure if i am ready. there's this one guy i like who is 14. he's deeply religious. he's a nice freshman. i believe he is responsible. we would NOT do anything above w/e we can handle.
i skipped 3 grades, so i'm a junior right now. i'm not 'pressured' into doing anything at the moment, dating-wise. it's just that my friends, who are 16 and 17, are dating and seem to enjoy it. i honestly believe that i am as mentally (if not physically) mature as my best friends. (don't get me wrong, i'm not like...an underdeveloped 13 yr old) we talk about stuff that's interesting to us all, not just them or me.
do you think i'm ready? or will i just 'know' when i am?
2006-11-03 17:20:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that this is your parents decision to make. I believe that you are probably more mature than most girls your age. If I was your parent, I might let you try going out on group outings with other kids within your age group, such as school dances, youth group etc. It is wonderful that you are excelling in school. What an achievement to have skipped three grades! You might also, try supervised dates, such as him coming over for dinner and movies. Dating can make life more complicated when feelings get in the way so you will need to be careful not to slack off in your school and home duties. Have fun and keep it simple and light.
2006-11-03 17:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
13 is too young to date. Dating has nothing to do with your grades in school. You may think you are mature enough to date at 13 but there is more to dating then what your 16 and 17 year old friends tell you, you have to experience dating for yourself when you are older to handle circumstances and situations and make the right decisions. You skipped 3 grades so that tells me you are an intelect, but that school work, dating is an one on one personal relationship, can you handle that? No you are not ready yet !!!!
2006-11-03 17:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by Neetaa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it sounds like you have answered you own question; obviously you are quite bright and know how to assess your love life with a good measure of objectivity.
It seems to me, you are distressed by this guy's level of commitment to his religion. Sorry to say but guys can be prudish too! Is that what's on your mind?
You got the go ahead from your parents, so you have to make the decision .... And remember were not talking about converting to a religion. It's only dating! Now I can't answer your question, because "assumption is not objectivity". But you have earned my vote of confidence. So you didn't waste 5 points! You will answer this question the best.
2006-11-03 17:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by Lightbringer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait. At least until your 16. Then you can drive and work. Concentrate on school, friends, and having fun right now! You don't get to enjoy those things for long.
Getting into relationships also puts you into emotional and physical stress, along with everything else you have to deal with. Believe me, you'll know when you're ready!! It's great that you're advanced in school. So, don't let boys interfere with that. But you'll know when you're ready-and believe me, you'll probably be around 16 when you decide you're ready! But what ever you decide to chose, Good luck!!
2006-11-03 17:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-15 08:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by pavolini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to wait a little more. You have plenty of time after all! Plus if you were around teens your age you might not be thinking about it as much as you are right now, its just the influence you are getting from your older friends. Theres nothing wrong with having friends that are from the opposite sex though, I mean you can still spend time with them without becoming too serious or trying to commit to a relationship and start actual dating. Just give yourself a little more time if you can
2006-11-03 17:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on how you want to define 'dating'. If its just casual fun while hanging out with someone special--you are never too young or too old.
If you are thinking of anything more serious than that...there is never a right age...just the right person at the right time for the right reasons. You'll know when you are ready :-)
2006-11-03 17:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't rush, because you're never too OLD to start dating. Only start it if you think you can juggle good grades and a relationship at the same time. Maybe put it off until next year, 13 is still pretty young.
2006-11-03 17:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of people are going to say that you're not ready, but I'm sure that won't deter you. People reach maturity at different speeds.
So my advice is:
Don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable doing, and don't let a relationship distract you from your schoolwork.
2006-11-03 17:24:49 · answer #9 · answered by Yishan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a mature person for your age. You are obviously not ready yet and don't be pressured into it.
Already you are being pushed ahead in life, having skipped three grades. Don't miss having a childhood yourself because you are hanging out with older people.
2006-11-03 17:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋