To be completely honest i have never really "dated", but have gone out places with girls. I always hear the line "just wait for the right one" i've been waiting and it can be a long process. I'm in college now and i see girls left and right, but feel no "connection" so i don’t rush it and i wait for the right girl. There are something’s i don’t do like ask girls on a date over the internet cause thats not me, i like to meet people in person show them my personality and know theirs too. People love my personality i have the best since of humor guaranteed you wont find someone like me, every sentence will make you laugh even in the saddest event's i can get people to laugh. I love to see people laugh cause it makes me feel good. I guess what i'm trying to say is that "i cant understand why i don’t have a GF? If you ladies and gents could give me some solutions why that would be great i'm free anytime, thanks.
2006-11-03 17:27:54 · 5 answers · asked by Soren 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
entire conversations can't be done with one liners, all these girls probably think your gay because most outgoing happy guys are, sad but true, if you have the girls always laughing then you have already broke the ice (the hardest part in meeting women) find one that your attracted to then ask her if she wants to go to lunch while she's still smiling from your funny personality, do it soon before everyone on campus starts thinking your gay (not that anything is wrong with it), then you'll have the wrong crowd after you
2006-11-03 17:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is right. Everyone prolly assumes you are gay. I am in the same situation you are. I have never dated, and I am just alone all the time. I have a french accent, and a lisp, so everyone thinks I am gay. I also have no friends. I am in my last year of college so my time is almost up. No one ever notices me, either. I think your best route is to make some friends with girls first. Not a single one of them will say yes to a date unless they are friends with you already. It takes time and time. It will not be immediate, it does not happen that way. The saying there are alot of fish in the sea is true. BUT< what do you do if you are not a good fisherman, right?
2006-11-03 17:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm in college now and i see girls left and right, but feel no "connection" so i don’t rush it and i wait for the right girl"
I respect your patience and ability to wait for the right person =) It's great not to rush in with any girl since there's no chemistry. You sound a lot like my childhood friend by the same name. We loved hanging out with him because he was so funny and he was very kind too. There is never a dull moment with him. He is handsome too and we notice lots of girls lilked being with him.
But there was never a "connection" like you said....perhaps because he was so brotherly, it felt strange regarding him anything otherwise.
Other girls who were attracted to him found his sociable personality too stressful on their relationship.
At the end of the day, my friend married a *wonderful* lady who was very beautiful, very demure, but also very quietly confident. She accepted and appreciated his highly sociable personality. He's a very happy man now.
May you also find someone wonderful who appreciates you for your uniqueness.
2006-11-03 17:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by La-Soph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why haven't you dated? See a girl you like and ask her out. She will need time to get to know you as you will need to get to know her. Having a "connection" can take a while to happen.
2006-11-03 17:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how u feel! it is really frustrating that why decent guy like u can't get a gf. i like ur attitude, to wait for the right gal to come. remember my son, never flirt or disrespect a gal. but while u are schooling keep them as friends, beyond that it is hard to find one, really.
2006-11-03 17:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋