I kept thinking about a scenario where say you're married, you have a nice and caring wife. But us (guys,men,husbands) while walking on the street never get wooed by passer-by, either walking ones or people in their cars and probably never will, this is the way society is, people don't tease guys. But say your wife is walking down that road, and is attracting lot of attention from everyone (from people in their cars and people walking by), and she is really appreciates this kind of attention coz it makes her feel younger and beautiful, and if your wife is that kind of women who likes attention a lot, she might just jump to bed with the most courteous guy (someone who makes her feel on top of the world). I know that not all women are like this, so some might think i'm a p-r-i-c-k for saying this. But this is just a thought that came to me, it made a little bit of sense and i wanted to share it with everyone.
2006-11-03 17:16:48 · 7 answers · asked by bchboy_998 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually the reason that I asked this question is that my brother's wife cheated on him, it just broke my heart when I learnt about this. My brother has been a father-figure for me, u can't hate this guy. When I asked his wife why did s he cheat on him? She just replied she didnt get much attention as she'd liked to. But the truth is that my brother was working relentlessly day and night, to give her the life he wanted her to have, he wanted to fulfill her every dream, but it required a sacrifice he couldnt give the attention he wanted to his wife, but he was doing this all for her. What I don't understand is that I understand she needed attention but she didnt have to go to an extent of cheating, we have such a big loving family, if only she had spent time with them. What she did was wrong and unfair!!!
2006-11-03 17:36:53 · update #1
Interesting. I think a lot depends on the woman's self-esteem and morals. This happens to me, and when I was first married, my husband would get angry and confront guys. It was embaressing to me for him to act that way, and honestly I don't feel complimented by a complete stranger yelling, "Ooooo BABY!!" at me.
I NEVER cheated on my husband. He ended up cheating on me with someone at work, though - the person several of his co-worker have also had affairs with!
One thing I took away from it was that 1) I was used to the attention and it didn't mean that much to me 2) he WASN'T used to much attention from strangers, and wasn't mature enough, strong enough, or whatever you want to call it - he couldn't handle it.
2006-11-03 17:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by I saw whatudid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and married my wife has three kids two with Frost husband and one with me and she gets lots of look i just enjoy it as long as its looks but Ive Allis said a woman can get it ten times as fast as a man a man has got to have ever thing money house car looks and Alla woman got to do bee Thar some one in the crowed will want her not sure if that was what you was asking but thear it is good luck
2006-11-04 01:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by runninglate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman who has cheated before, I can honestly say it wasn't because the guy gave me anymore attention than my husband. I don't think women are more "prone" to doing it than men, either. We all have needs that if not met, we are easily tempted by others who do meet them.
2006-11-04 01:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by deliannathaniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men a women. if we don't get attention from our spouses. we will get it else where. that's just human nature. there's no difference between a man and a woman. the woman goes for what she's missing in a different way than a man. a man misses sex. a woman misses love. neither is fulfilled.
2006-11-04 01:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by zenasrager 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women want and need that attention..Others like it but they wouldn't cheat to get it.If you don't give your women attention she might go else where. But if you give her what she wants then you have nothing to worry about.
2006-11-04 01:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by kira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you made a GREAT coment. i dont judge you at all, and im proud of you for speaking your mind! <3
See i just want to bring up one thing. Many women like myself, do NOT like that kind of attention. I hate men staring at me like a possesion. If you like the way i look so what its my body, and its for me and my boyfriend.
i dont know. i understand what you are saying tho. and i hate whores.
peace homefry
<3
2006-11-04 01:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by tessie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if a woman is getting what she needs at home she will not rome if a man treats her like crap she will get tired of it and go find someone do her right
2006-11-04 01:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by Avis S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋