I just met back up with my crush that I hadn't spoken to in five years and I'm obsessing over whether he likes me. Well we got together last night and ended up kissing for two hours. I had to leave just before we would have had sex and he was really disappointed. But before I left we made plans to get together next week. He even said he would break plans he already had with his friends so he could spend Wednesday night with me. Do you think he likes me or does he just want sex?
2006-11-03 17:36:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for your responses! So if he is only interested in sex, how can I get him interested in ME? And he is already expecting we're going to have sex on Wednesday, how do I back out without him getting mad? And one last question, if I go ahead and have sex with him and it's great and we keep having sex, won't that automatically turn into a relationship?
2006-11-03 17:51:43 · update #1
I think he just wants sex:
A. That's what most guys want period.
B. He spent two hours making out with you and only felt disappointment at the end.
Sex is a powerful bargaining tool for a woman. It's best to hold back and not give it out so quickly. You'll just end up used and heartbroken.
2006-11-03 17:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was trying to figure out if it was me that he wanted to be around or if he just wanted to have sex then I would invite him over for a movie or whatever you like to do and make sure that he knows that there will be no sex.
If he knows that there will be no sex and still decides to break plans to just hang out with you.. then he likes you.
If he doesnt, or makes an excuse after you tell him.. then he wants sex.
2006-11-04 01:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by izzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does like you for kissing you 2 hours, but he also wants sex.
2006-11-04 01:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes to have sex with girls. If you are a girl, then he would probably like having sex with you.
2006-11-04 01:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to have sex
2006-11-04 01:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by superrr_star88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you get together and you end up going straight to the bed room then there is your answer but hell take a chance he might be genuine.
2006-11-04 01:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by imalwayswatchin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both
2006-11-04 01:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋