Hey guys! I need the answer to a rather perplexing problem I have. I am an attractive strawberry blonde with great curves and a lovely smile. I get flirted with a lot - at restaurants, while shopping, at parties, anywhere. However, I have NEVER been asked for my number. I find it rather confusing when a guy is very much interested in me and doesn't attempt to persue it any further. Any help for a confused, single girl?
2006-11-03 17:28:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends, some guys ask for your number if they're really interested, maybe its something that your telling the guy to make him think twice about asking for your number. I guy can get really turned off when they see a hot girl but they say something really stupid. Guys now these days dont ask for a number, they ask if you have a myspace. Hope this helps! =)
2006-11-03 17:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by Krazydude111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before i answer,,i have a LOL myself in my respond thought.Were all guys drunken by your beauty,attractives & lovely smile?How could they remember for a phone number from you or they might even thought you were not available & no chances at all.As for the first time you meet them,they may thought/feel that it's not a nice way to ask for a phone number from you.May be they thought they could meet you at the place where they meet you at the time you flirt with them again but you never turn up or your turn up is not the right time.Good Luck Always.
2006-11-04 01:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by Borneo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have problems with an attractive girl. Maybe they're taken, but certainly not all of them. You can always say, why don't you give me a call sometime. Then, if they ask for your number, you will have given them the OK and they can be comfortable with that.
2006-11-04 01:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all let me say my name is James love and iam an newbie at this so just bear with . i think its because some men fell unsure about the out come and some are just players try to see if they can get as many women as they can ,and then there the other 50% of men that do go for it but dont follow though e they fell intimidated by beautifully women as a matter of fact you guys out number us your better looking smarter and control the whole out come of the whole thing man that sucks any way there it is thats what i think is going on with some of these guys
2006-11-04 02:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by james l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are shy and if you are that pretty they automatically think your taken. Some times a smile a wink a stare can help u lure that guy over U just got to build his confidence. Most guys don't like being shot down. Then u got them other wild bunch...beware of those guys they probably have to many girls on there hands if u know what i mean
2006-11-04 01:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by Viper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking a guy for his number. Why should a guy do all the work all the time? Because of tradition? Style? Break the barrier and ask someone out. It doesnt take masculinity, it only takes some interest. Your not masculine because you ask a guy out.
2006-11-04 01:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 16, a girl came up to me and said, "You are so good looking... you must have a girlfriend". Believe me when I tell you I was shocked. As the years passed... I realized I was better looking than I thought....I was so full of doubt... But I was not ready for her. Guys can be "good looking" also... Lot's of smiles, winks... phone numbers.
Be yourself... respond and be nice.
The results may amaze you!!
2006-11-04 01:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, these guys aren't ready for anything. So, they figure that it would be best to go to parties and intermingle with hot looking girls, go home, and repeat the same thing over and over because they feel that they won't be tied down this way.
2006-11-04 01:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by nate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may come off as either cold and uninterested or intimidating and scary. Examine what message your body language is sending, then try again, be ready to give your number, keep a pen and try to make it easy for them, it will happen.
2006-11-04 01:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys are shy and intimidated by a pretty, confident girl. If you like a guy, why not ask him out? Any guy would be thrilled.
2006-11-04 01:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by californiarad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋