My fiance and I do a lot together with our friends and family. I'm talking all his bros and their wives, his parents and all his buddies and their wifes. He also has 2 exgirlfriends that are still friends with his siter in law, (his bros wife) and some of his buddies wifes, so when plans are made to get together one of them (sometimes) finds out about it and shows up. I usally don't care BUT when all the girls act different toward me because one of his ex's are there it really hurts my feelings. I just want to be treated the same weather they are there or not. I am myself when we do things together and I just can't get the girls (the wifes of my fiances buddies) to warm up to me. I feel like they don't respect me or remember I am part of this family also. I am starting to get uncomfortable around them ALL. My fiance does'nt even want to hang around any of them anymore and I don't want it to come to that.
2006-11-03 17:55:57 · 7 answers · asked by ~mellisa~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
IF HE DOES NOT WANT YOU AROUND THEM NEITHER SHOULD HE BE AROUND THEM EITHER. TIT FOR TAT.
BOTH YOU AND HE SHOULD BREAK OUT AND MAKE A NEW CIRCLE OF FRIENDS THAT DON'T INCLUDES ANY EX'S.
OR HIS FAMILY NEED TO LIMIT THEIR TIME WITH HIS EX'S TO WHEN YOU TWO ARE NOT THERE.
NO ROOM FOR EX GIRLFRIENDS.....NOR EX BOYFRIENDS IN RELATIONSHIPS.
IF HE DOS NOT SEE IT THIS WAY--MOVE ON WITHOUT HIM LET HIM GO HIS OWN WAY..BACK TO HIS EX'S.
2006-11-03 18:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by cork 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
speaking from adventure, All ladies are the comparable after a breakup, they recover from you for a pair of weeks, then will come crawling back to you. She basically needs time to recover from the certainty that 'we aren't to any extent further a pair, and that i choose we choose some area', yet do no longer difficulty, she'll come around. interior the advise time attempt and basically initiate having common conversations along with her, and via the top of the month, i will in all probability almost assure you would be maximum suitable pals back. enable me understand the way it seems!
2016-10-15 08:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, I go around MY ex and HER hubby,
Her family treats him differently, i ALMOST feel bad. But i don't go
on purpose, i grew up with her sisters kids and i have my own family, I see her sister more than she does so, this is no fault of
mine and i don't mind it. Besides your marrying him, Not his family.
Unless he's momma's boy he'll make you feel most comfortable and if that means staying away 'til his family gets the picture then
he'll do that for you.
good luck!
2006-11-03 18:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to marry into this family, so you may as well get used to how they behave. They are not going to change because of you. If you can't live like this, maybe you shouldn't marry this guy.
2006-11-03 18:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
exes around are always bad news. or most of the time. unless you like drama.
2006-11-03 17:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them they are jealous...
2006-11-03 17:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Angelus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u can...
2006-11-03 17:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋