i'm in 12 grade and i like someone but my parents dont allow me to have a bf. i can only date with my future husband which they r going to choose when i'll 22 or 23. and i think that guy likes me too . we talk by eyes everyday but cant really have real conversation.
should i go against my parents and have a bf ?
2006-11-03 18:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by Miss Question Mark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look my parents also dont expect from me to have a bf but still i have since class 8.....i m also indian and i think u too.....i also luv him but i know i have to marry someone else and thats perfectly alrite with me......
2006-11-03 18:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by sweety 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a good idea not to start with the boyfriends while still in school - concentrate on your studies instead so you can get a good education and a good career in the future.
However, as for your parents choosing your future husband, that is totally ridiculous. When you are old enough to think about marriage (and it doesn't have to be by the time you're 22 or 23), you make your own choices and follow your own heart.
2006-11-04 02:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's very hard because you want to obey your parents but you don't want to seem like an outcast at school as well. So if you really like this guy then I think that you should try going out with him, but because your parents don't approve then make it a group thing when you go out, then that way if your parents find out you have an excuse. Good luck and listen to your heart.
2006-11-04 02:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the type of person you are. If you are meek, timid and a general pushover, just listen to you parents 'cause you can't seem to think for yourself.
Sounds like you respect what you 'rents have to say. Try discussing
it with them IF possible. Boyfriend will be temporary, you will hurt your parents for Like if you go behind their backs.
GOD i sound old already!
2006-11-04 02:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to think carefully about this your future husband may not be the 'one' and you can live being really unhappy however he may be the one and you'll live happily ever after but what if he isn't the one?
technically its up to you,your parents have no right to intervene.
2006-11-04 02:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by mylostpets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this small high school love has a very short life. It's trouble and stressfull and sometimes get bitchy , so it's better to stay off.
(speaking from experience)
2006-11-04 02:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by usthath@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋