its about me and my fiancee. he has been my best friend for a long time now before we decided to tie the knot . he was always very loyal and faithful to me and no one in my familly or friends can ever think wrong about him. he is in merchant navy. now my problem is that he was about to board his ship from a country recently (spain). i saw in his mobile a website . and to my shock it was a dating site for spain and it was seen the day next to which he was supposed to take his ship. is he bluffing me and dating people on my back ? all in all mariners are known for stuff like this.should i ask him directly? or how should i know?
2006-11-03 18:18:24 · 7 answers · asked by dimdim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask him, don't assume. Maybe he was just curious. Just because someone is on a diet doesnt mean he cant look at the menu.
2006-11-03 18:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by luscious_tori 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Dum, If you think he is dating girls on the side,you need to find out before you marry this guy. I would just come out and ask him. If he says, no i don't bring up the website and see how he acts and what he says. To me this means he will do it again after you 2 get marry. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-11-03 18:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since that is the only proof u have to go by on, ask him directly. Just don't be surprised if he denies it. In my opinion, the most likely reason someone would be on such sites is if they want to get on the dating scene. Unless he's single, this is very inappropriate.
2006-11-03 18:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no business on a dating web site. The name of the site tells you what it's for....DATING! Ask him, come right out and ask him.
2006-11-03 18:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by type3gem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking him is pointless. If he really is cheating, he will not tell you the truth. When he returns from his current deployment, and before you get married, tell him you want to go to couples counselling together. Then bring it up during counselling.
2006-11-03 18:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him, but if he is cheating on you do you really think he'll admit to it if you confront him?
2006-11-03 18:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by VIP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say ask him directly then ask him why?
a fiancee shouldnt be doin that
2006-11-03 18:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋