a while back this guy that goes to my church asked me if i liked him , i said no... now i do like him and ive seen that he kind of likes this gurl that i kind of talk 2 as a friend... hes always around her,talking to her and stuff....they look as if there going out but they both say there not....hes sapposibly ''my buddy'' but we dont even talk anymore like we used 2, we barely even say 'hi' now...i try to get him to notice me...but he still dosent really talk 2 me...he knows how i feel 2...but he kind of ignores me around that gurl...what should i do becuz i really like him...although people ask me what i see in him and that i could do much better
2006-11-03 18:15:03 · 13 answers · asked by pink_angel_nr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes trin to make u jealous. tell him itz not workin, n dat u like him anway. but read otha answers first, coz i m not sure itll work. lol !
2006-11-03 18:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, and you guys go the church. Anyway, it sounds more like you started liking him because he's interested in not only someone else but someone who is your friend. Do you actually think they would tell you if they're really going out? Actually, it's really none of your business because you had your chance. Let them have theirs. I'm pretty sure he's notices you. Along with everyone else, he notices that your making complete fool of yourself. Move on and go to church listen to word of God, not to keep up on his lovelife.
2006-11-04 02:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of pesrson are u (sorry, am just shocked)? U told the guy who used to like that u didn't like him! As a gentleman, he luckly found some one else who likes him! And u are jealousy of that?? If it were u, how would u have reacted if a guy told u that he didn't like u? Would u force him to like u? Sorry, don't take it personally!
2006-11-04 02:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by badboy22bs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said no already before. but aren't you only challenged by the idea that he may have found another girl aside from you? i wouldn't suggest that you seduce him. the best you can do is to stiill be friends with him, be sweet, be extra caring, extra thoughtful, and hopefully he finally notices and realizes that he still likes you. sadly, regret is always in the end.
2006-11-04 02:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered that you might be interested in him just because he may be in you? Otherwise, if your shy you could let him know on-line that you like him. Just say it like its no biggie. You could say that you panicked and said no unintentionally. Whatever you do, just be yourself. Because in the end he was interested when you didn't even know. Does that make sense? lol
2006-11-04 02:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by huggskisses20001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him.
Even if he does like you, he's trying to make you jealous then and that's pretty low on the "crappy things men do"
I'm way above that, you should date me.
2006-11-04 02:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him alone. He asked, and you said no. You can't suddenly change your mind and expect him to wait around for you "just in case".
2006-11-04 02:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by Nicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to other people listen to your heart. what do you want? tell him that you like him or you'll regret it. have you ever heard the saying a person who doesnt ask is a fool?
2006-11-04 02:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told him you didn't like him so he's just moving on. People are telling you can do much better so do that. Good luck!!!
2006-11-04 02:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you screwed up. You had your opportunity now you have to wait for him if you really like him now. May I ask what changed from then to now that you went from not liking him to liking him. you may email me if you wish.
2006-11-04 02:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋