I want sex but my wife has no interest in it for the past ten years since a car accident. I see no issue in separating Love and Sex.
2006-11-03 18:14:30 · 16 answers · asked by Traveller 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i see what yu mean. but..... i don't know if you had the same volves. as me , but mine said in sickness and in health.. just as it says in sickness and in health... honey, i know it's hard, but we have to endure. my husband has not given me sex for 20 years because of a medical problem. some times i question that medical problem but i have to live with it. i masterbate to fulfill. you may have to too. it get old. you can only imagine so much. i wish somehow we could met and satisfy each other. good luck humming.....you want to get in touch with me, my email :tootalljones@yahoo.com we can have im sex want to. im is the same .yahoo IM down load it.
2006-11-03 18:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by zenasrager 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your wife about your sexual needs, and be honest with her and let her know you are thinking of getting sex outside your marriage.
Remind her that 10 years is a long time to go without, and that sex is a very important part of your life. Some people can live without, some people can't. If things still don't change, then go for it.
2006-11-04 02:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by Das 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spice things up. But I don't see the use in having an affair as she will eventually find out. Buy her some sexy lingerie or some dirty videos. Or even try some dirty talk. Maybe try to be sensitive and understanding about her feelings towards her car accident and her feelings. She may feel unattractive to you if she was seriously hurt. Having an affair sounds easy, but you don't want to get caught!
2006-11-04 02:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I was the only one with this kind of problem!! My wife of 11 years is the same gotttt damnnn way. To her sex is like going to a labor camp.She is only 34 years old,and we only have 1 child. Well I think it's mine?? I truly believe "MARY" was not the only one who was touched by "GOD", I think "Valerie" was touched also! Being married ,and having no sex really sucks!! You need to give your wife what I gave my wife? 2 choices!! Tell her "look babe , it's either in your "PINK" or in your "STINK" that's it and that's all!! It worked for me!!!! good luck!!!
2006-11-04 04:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by ARTY D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are still in love with her, it may not be a good idea to have an affair..If she finds out, it will be devastating to both of you...Tell her how you feel and see if she gives you any suggestions...
2006-11-04 02:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you still with her???Theres a lot of ways to enjoy sex maybe shes cheating on you...
2006-11-04 02:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by Larry S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO... You bought the ticket work it out!
In good times and in bad...
these are the bad...
2006-11-04 02:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Angelus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
discuss this with your wife and if she agrees that you are not cheating and just having some fun
2006-11-04 02:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Vaness 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's ur wife dude !!! u should stand her :S dude ? did u say 10 years ..... oh i guess u should think about that !!!
2006-11-04 02:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by dodi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her if she still doesnt agrees try to control ur desperate need.....if not...god can also not help u
2006-11-04 02:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by sweety 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋