ok, so, my bf found out one of my friends likes me and he is mad at him cuz he knows i have a bf. so he talked to him and the guy still likes me. if i invite him to my bday party, my bf might blow up at him there, and i dont want them to hate each other. they never see each other cuz they go to different schools, but stil!!! Help please!!! (only good and thoughtful answers please)
2006-11-03 18:44:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explain to ur BF that he doesn't need to worry about ur friend. If u had a thing for ur friend u would have left ur BF for him. Explain that is not necessary for ur BF to be jealous.That you picked him to be your boyfriend and not your friend. Explain to ur friend that the only thing you can offer him right now is friendship and that is all that you can be right now. Make him understand the boundaries between the two of you.
2006-11-03 18:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by someone ha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Flip a coin! Heads you have fun and the two dudes fight...tails you only get the bf and piss the friend off cuz you didn't give an invite. You are in a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. You may need to hang out with the friend away from the party at a later or earlier day...may be your only safe way out, just don't tell the bf! Actually you said he liked you but not if you like the friend??? I am betting part of you also has a crush. Maybe change is in the air?!?! Good luck which ever way it goes! }:-)
2006-11-04 02:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU need to talk to your friend and let him know how u feel and how your bf feels about the situation. Your friend is not going to care about what you bf thinks but he will definitely care about what you think if he wants to at least keep you as a friend. If you want to keep your bf and avoid a ridiculous fight. You have to let your friend no to back off ASAP
good sweety
2006-11-04 02:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by candy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you will be the uncomfortable one at your own party if they both come, and now knowing that your friend wants to be more than friends with you , I would think maybe he shouldn't go to your party, just for the fact it would (now) be unfair to your boyfriend, unless you are wanting to play games of jealousy with them? Common sense tells you not to have both of them there at the same time, and I'm sure your friend will understand if he's any kind of man. If you invite him, your just inviting him to think that maybe he does have a chance with you. You might really want to think this one over girlfriend cause there might be precisions over this. Just my thoughts. Hope it all works for you. sunnydays
2006-11-04 02:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i say that you should explain to your friend that there's no way ya'll could be together b/c you have strong feelings for our bf and if he continues then ya'll can't be friends. then, if he agrees get him to tell your boyfriend that he's not interested in you and will move on with his love life.
2006-11-04 03:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure that you dont get them in front of each other .
2. Dont hurt your friend niether your bf by tallking about them in front of each other
3. make sure you keep your friend in his limits so that he just be your friend
4. tell your bf that he has to trust you
Regards
Sameer
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2006-11-04 02:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to have to choose between the two, then you need to keep them apart.
2006-11-04 02:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jaded 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make your friend stop liking u
n make ur friend n ur bf be pals
:)
or pretend ur friend dont like u anymore
2006-11-04 02:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obvious...keep them separated okay? or they might just wind up getting in to it at your party and that wont be to nice of a party then would it? no keep them separated..have fun...
2006-11-04 02:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by BLUEEYES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋