My husband and I have a good sex life.. we have sex almost everyday and sometimes more than once a day... I'm 19, he's 22. When we drink together, my inhibitions lower and I like to dance around sexy, like on his lap, etc. The problem is, he acts like he's completely not interested in my dancing. We've been together for four years, married almost one... what gives? Why doesn't he find me sexy when I dance for him?
2006-11-03 18:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by Nicole 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is probably bord of the same routine he already knows what to exspect..try something else....
2006-11-03 18:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by BLUEEYES 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the alcohol lowers your coordination as well as your inhibitions, he might find it embarassing. Maybe he simply doesn't enjoy your dancing and it would be a good time to try something new?
2006-11-04 02:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband likes for me to dance like this for him only at home in private but he does not like it if we are in public or even if other people are here at home with us. Like if we are having a party or friends over.
He believes I should only show off my body this way for him alone. He does not want other people to see me dance like this even though when I do dance like this it is only for his benefit.
2006-11-04 02:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by pj_gal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might find not intrested in dancing or his mind would devate on some other work or he would like factional sexy dress which will bring him more attraction between you.or he would like only traditional dress
2006-11-04 02:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by jayesh j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be bz he is not interested in watching dance.. It may be bz that doesn't make him feel sexy. Not all men are interested in seeing their partner dance for them.
2006-11-04 02:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by mind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, it depends on how he felt and I am not sure if he like you to dance or etc. Maybe there are other reasons. Maybe we can chat off here as there are some things we are restricted to chat here. email me at james_cd_lover@yahoo.com.sg.
2006-11-04 02:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by James B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
may he just wants to hit the spot directly .. usually males are not very keen on these kind of foreplays once they are aroused they wanna release
try a bed hima
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Sameer
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2006-11-04 02:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sameer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a problem.. Just stop dancing.
2006-11-04 11:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
may be he can not wait till dance ,support him & enjoy your hobby some other time
2006-11-04 02:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know come over and dance for me and i will tell u
2006-11-04 02:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋