I have a Daughter,I love her with all my Heart,but she dont have any time for me,my Stepdaughter loves me,she allways takes time for me,what can I do,I like all them to be happy
2006-11-03 18:36:25 · 13 answers · asked by karl s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think you actually like your stepdaughter more- I think you have more fun with her because she has time for you. Make sure your daughter knows you love her too. She may just be going through a phase and eventually she will realize how important you are to her.
2006-11-03 18:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by peggy j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't ever show it. And second, you can't help how you feel, I mean step d or not she is still family, I don't think there is anything wrong with favoring one over the other a little, just as long as you don't show it! Because that would really hurt your daughter vice versa. As long as you love both of them all will be good. sunnydays
2006-11-03 18:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you do. Your daughter has no time for you, then fine. Not your fault. She'll grow up to regret it later. Just keep trying to reach out. Don't make it your fault.
You can never make everyone happy. Usually you end up making yourself miserable.
2006-11-03 18:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just love the both equally
2006-11-03 19:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by blue_angle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same thing. My stepmommy likes me more, although she loves us both. And i love her more than my natural mom, even tho i love them both. So love them both <<<<3 good luck!!
2006-11-03 19:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by KGcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out what it is that makes you say you like her more. Then realize that if she didn't exist, would you not be satisfied with your own daughter?
2006-11-03 19:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by no_um_4_u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just love them both and if your daughter cant see how much you love her and miss her then that is her loss NOT yours.Good Luck
2006-11-03 18:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by wizardalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you like your step daughter more, it sounds more like your getting the attention you need from your step daughter. Don't feel guilty for enjoying your step daughter, you said so yourself, your daughter has no time for you:( It's okay.
2006-11-03 18:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by wherenai 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just love them all the same don't make your children feel awkward and don't make your step child feel pushed away try to be equal to them all and treat them all the same...
2006-11-03 19:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by BLUEEYES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick urself in the back and do the right thing...usually the thing that u dont wanna do....
2006-11-03 19:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋