Where am i going to find true love?

Question

i have found people i like but theres always something that block us from going out, this has happened with 5 different girls now, the other day i realized i'm in a depression and i even thought of suicide for a way to get away from the pain always in me, and all i want is to have someone to care for and someone that would care for me, but i'm beginning to think i'll never get there what should i do?

Answer 1

Not on Yahoo! Answers.

Answer 2

I work in mental health. Go get some help for your thinking. I know how lonely you are feeling- I'm kind of there right now too. But the thing is that the feelings that are inside of you will not go away when you find someone. They might go away temporarily, but they will come back. I always thought my depression would be better if I was with someone so I married a horrible (but attractive looking) woman since I thought anything else would be better than being alone. She damn near killed me emotionally. I would have never been with her if I had not been thinking (like you) that anything is better than loneliness. It's not. I am single now and sometimes I think that life would be so much better if I had someone. Yes it might be little more enjoyable but life's problems are still going to hit me (and you) full force. We need to be able to cope on our own, because the is no guarantee about anyone staying with someone else.

Answer 3

You will get there. Don't let this get you down. Love is not something that we can look for. It always seems to happen at the weirdest times or places. What stops you from going out and having a good time with someone? I know that it might be painful not having soemone to love in your life, but suicide is not the answer. Trust me and you will find someone and when you do, it will be the most amazing experience in you life that you will ever have. You just need to be patient. It will happen for you.

Answer 4

I used to think the same way. I was single with two kids (who would want me?). I had left a relationship that was worthless. I was getting no where. I left the area I was living and went somewhere new to make a fresh start. I stoppped thinking about how lonely I was and how my kids need a dad. Then it all started happening! Within months I met and fell in love with a wonderful man and just recently had my fourth child. It is all a matter of patience. But more importantly, enjoy your life single or not. Get out and make new friends and don't be too hard on yourself. The right person will come along - be positive!

Answer 5

What you need to do first is to love yourself and walk out of that painful episode that has you wrapped up and confused. That pain that you are feeling is rejection, giving up and loneliness. You need to start feeling copmfortable in your skin and loving yourself. When you can do that then you can start looking again but before you go out again serching I suggest you look in you before in someone else. True love comes from within, suicide is not the answer to your worry and anguish of loneliness I know what loneliness is like we all pass through periods in our lives like that. Take your time and when you stop searching that person will come looking for you. I guarantee that God loved you so much that he created someone especially for you. God has a plan for all of us we were all put here on purpose not by mistake so begin your healing process by loving you first and you'll see everything would work out just fine. The saying goes around every rain cloud there is always a silver lining so those girls that you didn't get to go out with, maybe its all for a reason and until you start thinking like that you would always be frustrated.

Answer 6

First, you are the person to care about you. If you don't care about you then you aren't going to find anyone to do the job. You have to remember that life is ups and downs. The downs are what make the ups so good. If life was always good it would be boring. Having a problem and solving it makes you feel good. That you have the capability to take care of yourself feels good. So killing yourself isn't the solution...its the problem! Girls can see that and won't come around. They don't want to have to love you AND solve your problems!! And second, you won't "find" true love...it'll find you. If you look for it, you'll never find it. Just be a cheery person...genuine not fake...and not only girls but people will want to be around you. Complain, say you wanna die, whine alot or otherwise be negative and you'll be alone! Change your attitude and your life will follow! Good luck bro!

Answer 7

In the place you least expect it. Love is like the stock market...you take big risks, you have a higher potential return. The man I am with right now I met at a party I wasn't going to go except the girl throwing it called me twice, so I was like 'Fine, I'll just go for a little while.' I'm now with a man I can't get enough of and if I hadn't taken the risk of going to a party where I didn't know really anyone, I wouldn't have met him. I wish you all the luck in the world because everyone deserves someone to love, so my thoughts are with you ;-)

Answer 8

relax. everyone will surely find their true love one day. just need to be patient and do not be depress because that is not a thing to be sad of, but a lesson to learn from.

Answer 9

Well you're not gonna find love, sitting on your butt sulking. And you're certainly not gonna find it on Yahoo Answers!

Answer 10

first go to the doc for your depression, offing yourself is not the answer. next work on your self esteem,.........as you are working on you, the rest will work out. there is someone out there for everyone!!!!!!!!!!! keep your chin up.