Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

My wife cheated on me again and took the kids out of school, we have been together 16 years we got divorced in 2001 because of her cheating, I took her back and now she did it again and she wont stop spreading the awful things about me, I confront her she says I need medication, how can I become a stonger mentally person who will not fall for her lies anymore.

2006-11-03 20:59:28 · 13 answers · asked by eric f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he had an ex who ranaway with his checkbook, credit cards and left him her 4 children from her previous relationship.Now, he's always suspecting me of cheating on him. that i have ulterior motives, hidden agenda....i love him but he doesn't trust me.He says he love me everytime i want to call it quits....

2006-11-03 20:58:13 · 11 answers · asked by charlotte 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 20:53:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because i have lived in a house of aliens though they are relatives.

2006-11-03 20:51:16 · 15 answers · asked by ss.doha 1 in Friends

2006-11-03 20:51:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 20:49:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i had lossed my grandfather (basically my father) to leukemia in 2005. Since then the will of my grandfather went over to my aunt (she lives in LA and im from NY). Her job was to watch over my family (my dad -mentally ill, brother and i) and my grandfathers house which we all lived in. She never let me see the will. Instead she forced me and my brother to move out of the house and we weren't allowed to visit my father. She brainwashed my father to never talk to us and she sold my house. The only reason why she kept me and my brother away from my home and father was so she could sell the house quicker. I was forced to move into my moms house with her boyfriend that sexually moless me. I recently learned that she split the money of the house with all 4 aunts....leaving nothing to me or my father (i lived in that house my whole life and im 20 now). Im in my junior year at college and my grades have went down as a result of all this. I want to sue her for my emotional and physical pain

2006-11-03 20:45:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

pls answer it honestly thanks.. :)

2006-11-03 20:43:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sweet Sexy,
What a wonderful Wednesday it was, I just wanted to write you and thank you again since I was unable to write much yesterday morning due to the workload at hand. It was positively wondrous to be close to you, and to make love, which is out of this world.
I have to tell you, I am so impressed with your spirit in willingness to honor my request for more space that I feel closer to you than ever. You displayed an unprecedented level of understanding and wisdom, I am beside myself with admiration and respect for you. You never fail to show me the light when I have doubts. I only hope that I treat you as well as you deserve to be treated, because you are worthy of only the best and nothing less.
Looking at the whole, the only thing that I've had trouble with is how much you give, which is almost to an extreme, since you have such a generous heart. I can't help but to feel bad because I'm not in a position to give as much in return. At the same time I understand that is how you demonstrate your feelings, and I respect that.
I want to apologize that, I realize I've pretty much made it all about sex. That is shallow of me. I suppose I tried to justify it in my own mind by thinking that, as a man, maybe that is all you would care about too. But I am really a jerk for thinking alongs those lines-- you are a human being with feelings, not just a hot body and handsome face.
The more I find you reaching out to me with personal things such as sharing pictures with me, and showing/giving me things from your childhood, sends a message. Today I was puzzling over this outpouring, not knowing really what to do. My initial reaction unfortunately is to try to avoid getting too personal. But I started to think about how what a person shares is also what a person needs-- and maybe that I was treating you like an object. Like a sweet-hearted protest, you are showing me that you are more than just a toy. Like that toy doll in my dream that suddenly spoke, I've suddenly come to realize what's going on. I can see that you really want and need a special connection, and it's sad that I tend to do the exact opposite and vigilantly avoid everything that is romantic, sentimental, and personal. I don't know how to change this, but I think by ignoring your attempts to make a connection I am only making matters worse.
At least by acknowledging your needs I hope that you can see the level that I care about you. I am making my own attempt to figure out how to treat you right. I just wanted you to know that.
Have a joyful and happy Friday, looking forward to talking to you sometime this weekend.
Your,
Pumpkin

2006-11-03 20:42:58 · 6 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if its ok for you to go out with your mates on a hen party,and a birthday celebration,they say yes,but,the next morning they're in a mood and dont talk to you,,??

2006-11-03 20:41:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My sweet Sexy,
What a wonderful Wednesday it was, I just wanted to write you and thank you again since I was unable to write much yesterday morning due to the workload at hand. It was positively wondrous to be close to you, and to make love, which is out of this world.
I have to tell you, I am so impressed with your spirit in willingness to honor my request for more space that I feel closer to you than ever. You displayed an unprecedented level of understanding and wisdom, I am beside myself with admiration and respect for you. You never fail to show me the light when I have doubts. I only hope that I treat you as well as you deserve to be treated, because you are worthy of only the best and nothing less.
Looking at the whole, the only thing that I've had trouble with is how much you give, which is almost to an extreme, since you have such a generous heart. I can't help but to feel bad because I'm not in a position to give as much in return. At the same time I understand that is how you demonstrate your feelings, and I respect that.
I want to apologize that, I realize I've pretty much made it all about sex. That is shallow of me. I suppose I tried to justify it in my own mind by thinking that, as a man, maybe that is all you would care about too. But I am really a jerk for thinking alongs those lines-- you are a human being with feelings, not just a hot body and handsome face.
The more I find you reaching out to me with personal things such as sharing pictures with me, and showing/giving me things from your childhood, sends a message. Today I was puzzling over this outpouring, not knowing really what to do. My initial reaction unfortunately is to try to avoid getting too personal. But I started to think about how what a person shares is also what a person needs-- and maybe that I was treating you like an object. Like a sweet-hearted protest, you are showing me that you are more than just a toy. Like that toy doll in my dream that suddenly spoke, I've suddenly come to realize what's going on. I can see that you really want and need a special connection, and it's sad that I tend to do the exact opposite and vigilantly avoid everything that is romantic, sentimental, and personal. I don't know how to change this, but I think by ignoring your attempts to make a connection I am only making matters worse.
At least by acknowledging your needs I hope that you can see the level that I care about you. I am making my own attempt to figure out how to treat you right. I just wanted you to know that.
Have a joyful and happy Friday, looking forward to talking to you sometime this weekend.
Your,
Pumpkin

2006-11-03 20:41:07 · 11 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Friends

ok.... my step dad left on my 15th bday. and 3 yrs later he shows up and has moved in within a week.......
i mean my step dad was like my real father to me.. he was my best friend at a time.... only 2x did he leave me dissapointed.
but i mean he taught me alot and i appricate that... for 3 yrs i didnt hear anything from him... i was convinced i would never see him again...and wished i did...
but now... i dont understand why i hesitat to say i am happy he is back.. why?
why do i feel like if i dont want to see him.. it doesnt make sense!
shouldnt i feel happy...??????????????
and why do i think moving in within the week i saw him so soooon

so please help me anybody?

thank you

2006-11-03 20:41:04 · 6 answers · asked by Je Suis Une Enigme 1 in Family

Okay my friend has been dating this guy for like a year right? She'll go down on him, but he absolutely refuses to return the favor. I've told her that she should cut him off of those if he won't do it back, but she won't listen. So how could she actually get him to go down there. According to her he says it's to wet, and that that is the only reason.. I think it's stupid that he won't, so what advice should be given to her to get him to do that?

2006-11-03 20:40:14 · 10 answers · asked by blissfully_rebellious 2 in Singles & Dating

raindrops!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-03 20:35:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I lost my very good friend in a diving accident on Wednesday. He was only 37 and a very good man. He vansihed from the face of the earth. We are all just so devastated. My he rest in peace. He will be very badly mist by all of us.

2006-11-03 20:34:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance, soon to be wife and I are always making sexual comments and jokes to one another but alot of times when I make a minor foreplay on her its not as bad as not tonight I have a headache but might as well be. I love makeing love to her even when its only for her gain and not mine. But she works full-time and alot of times is not in that mood if you know what I mean, please help.

2006-11-03 20:33:11 · 3 answers · asked by Romeo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is the difference between love and lust?

2006-11-03 20:27:42 · 14 answers · asked by andy 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a teen who's never had a girlfriend. Finally this one chick has a crush on me but she;s dating my friend! She says she'll leave him if I ask her out so what do I do! How do I ask her out!

2006-11-03 20:25:57 · 34 answers · asked by THAT GUY 3 in Singles & Dating

i want to meet friends on line,where should i go?

2006-11-03 20:24:48 · 7 answers · asked by nour h 1 in Friends

2006-11-03 20:22:51 · 11 answers · asked by ~H~ 1 in Singles & Dating

If so, what would be appropriate?

2006-11-03 20:22:37 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs. Yeung 2 in Weddings

I have 0 male friends and I want but when they know I love another guy they are gone I tell them I just want to be a common friend but they all told me thats not possible why? I don't understand and feel hurt...

2006-11-03 20:20:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my new boyfriend is kind of conservative and i want to introduce something new to him.

2006-11-03 20:20:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 20:19:33 · 11 answers · asked by The False Prophet 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 20:16:45 · 12 answers · asked by edward b 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a very nice person and try to get along with everyone, but everytime I try to talk to her she puts on her headphones. She turns off the lights on me when I am studying and doesn't even aknowlege me.

2006-11-03 20:13:25 · 19 answers · asked by Kgirl 2 in Friends

Had a girl break-up with me and she lived with me for a month, then she moved in with this guy I worked with. I've been out, came close to hooking up, but just couldn't make myself go any further. I even had a situation ALMOST develop like how my relationship ended (example: I could've been that 'guy' who plays on a weak situation/girl). I go out, can't get comortable going out with groups cause I always got crap for it when I was in the relationship(and I was going out ALL the time!). What do I need to do. I hate feeling like Maverick when Goose died. And I 'm constantly feeling angry. And I can't bring myself to talk to anyone about it. HELP! please?

2006-11-03 20:12:51 · 6 answers · asked by lewisthomasp 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 20:08:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plz listen to dis
i love a guy and he also loves me . he is a kind of cool,be's always with his frnds.he is so careless in everything.three mnths before he proposed me and after a month a stared loving him.we dont talk much to each other but whenever we get free time we use to see at each other continously.we have talked nearly 6-7 times only and not more than dat.before we were in love we both were frnds .but now we dont talk to each other .i use to call him often and talk .i like him so oooooo much and i think theres no life without him.but now he is not talking to me very much .not even a single word each day.i feel dat he is not so serious in love bcoz today he did'nt talk to me as he is talking to his lver .hes just talking to as if he is talking to a some other gal.iam really scared dat if he would love me till d but his frnds tell dat he is so serious .

tell me wat should i do?
should i ask y u dont talk to me a lot?

2006-11-03 20:04:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I slept with my ex gf after 3 weeks ( she intitiated things, before that she was really caring and things were going great), after about a month though, everything changed. I realised things about her that i didn't like, and it was like we never really took the time to get to know each other properly.

2006-11-03 20:01:49 · 9 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating