2006-11-03 20:51:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's pretty typical. She is projecting her guilt. It happened to me.
2006-11-03 20:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by Not Tellin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually those who accuse others of something are guilty themselves I don't quite understand it myself but maybe that by turning the guilt and accusing ones partner of the same action the person feels relief and less guilt telling and eventually convincing themselves they are victim so it is not as pain full or disappointed,ashamed with there self. It makes for an easier let down if they can begin to push you away before things really hit the fan .But what else is going on prior to bieng accused maybe this is a cry for affection and reasurance that led her to cheat. I'm not putting any blame on anyone or defending her. Just keep an open mind to what could have led to this and learn.I can tell you from my own exsperience when I was cheated on, I time you heal and forgive and it's something that either will make you or break you.
2006-11-04 05:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by sweetcheeks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are about love, respect, communication, compromising, trust and hard work. Seems to be like the communication is non existent and the respect has gone out the door.
If you still love each other, then you need to sit down and discuss how you feel about the other, what you want from the marriage, and how to work and getting it. In order to stay together you will need to leave the past in the past, and work really hard at gaining each other's trust and respect.
If you talk and decide you don't love each other enough to work on it, then go your seperate ways. But before you enter into another relationship take the time to look at why the last didn't work, and what you would do different (learn from your mistakes) so it doesn't happen again
2006-11-04 05:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner was cheating on me and instead of coming clean he accused me of sleeping with someone else and said it was over. How low is that. I was in shock. At the time i thought how could he even think i did that but all along he made it up and told everyone that i was a cheat so he didnt have to admit to his own guilt.
2006-11-04 05:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kylie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOOo you admit you are doing that?
2 wrongs make a right all of a sudden?
So whats your question?
2006-11-04 04:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to go your separate ways.
2006-11-04 04:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sure?
2006-11-04 04:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Carlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋