if its ok for you to go out with your mates on a hen party,and a birthday celebration,they say yes,but,the next morning they're in a mood and dont talk to you,,??
2006-11-03 20:41:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my (ex)husband did this to me...like 4 nights out of every week.
whenever i said i wished he would stay, or suggest we do something together, he would always make me feel guilty, or his friends would give him a hard time about him not "being a man".
unfortunately, my hubby had different interests, like drinking and smoking pot, while i wanted to do family things with him and our daughter.
if these hen parties are chronic, maybe the boyfriend/husband is feeling left out, or feels like he's taking a backseat, or maybe he just feels like he is always waiting for his girl to come back.
if these get-togethers are occasional, then perhaps he is just insecure and needs some growing up.
hopefully he gets more (or at least equal) time with you as your friends do.
2006-11-03 21:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by soren 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basic human nature I guess! They want you to have a good time, but secretly wish that you can only have a good time with them! If you came back and were full of complaints about how 'not fun' the whole outing was, you'd find them in a much better mood, and probably quite willing to console and cheer you up!
2006-11-04 04:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by Unbiased 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just imature. my husband thinks it's great when I go out with the girls and have a few laughs. Why are you asking to go out anyway?! He needs to trust you obviously the trust in your relationship needs sorting! Goood luck!
2006-11-04 04:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey its not just men my gf does the same exact thing id rather she was straight with me and said no, than say yes and have the hump in the morning?
2006-11-04 04:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by gwoods1210 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that they resent you for having a social life or the fact that you came in well late stinking of fags and beer?
2006-11-04 04:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the men
2006-11-04 04:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have been more attractive then they are and got more attention then they,
2006-11-04 04:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do THEY have any freinds. they could be jealous.
2006-11-04 04:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos theyre stupid
2006-11-04 04:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋