My sweet Sexy,
What a wonderful Wednesday it was, I just wanted to write you and thank you again since I was unable to write much yesterday morning due to the workload at hand. It was positively wondrous to be close to you, and to make love, which is out of this world.
I have to tell you, I am so impressed with your spirit in willingness to honor my request for more space that I feel closer to you than ever. You displayed an unprecedented level of understanding and wisdom, I am beside myself with admiration and respect for you. You never fail to show me the light when I have doubts. I only hope that I treat you as well as you deserve to be treated, because you are worthy of only the best and nothing less.
Looking at the whole, the only thing that I've had trouble with is how much you give, which is almost to an extreme, since you have such a generous heart. I can't help but to feel bad because I'm not in a position to give as much in return. At the same time I understand that is how you demonstrate your feelings, and I respect that.
I want to apologize that, I realize I've pretty much made it all about sex. That is shallow of me. I suppose I tried to justify it in my own mind by thinking that, as a man, maybe that is all you would care about too. But I am really a jerk for thinking alongs those lines-- you are a human being with feelings, not just a hot body and handsome face.
The more I find you reaching out to me with personal things such as sharing pictures with me, and showing/giving me things from your childhood, sends a message. Today I was puzzling over this outpouring, not knowing really what to do. My initial reaction unfortunately is to try to avoid getting too personal. But I started to think about how what a person shares is also what a person needs-- and maybe that I was treating you like an object. Like a sweet-hearted protest, you are showing me that you are more than just a toy. Like that toy doll in my dream that suddenly spoke, I've suddenly come to realize what's going on. I can see that you really want and need a special connection, and it's sad that I tend to do the exact opposite and vigilantly avoid everything that is romantic, sentimental, and personal. I don't know how to change this, but I think by ignoring your attempts to make a connection I am only making matters worse.
At least by acknowledging your needs I hope that you can see the level that I care about you. I am making my own attempt to figure out how to treat you right. I just wanted you to know that.
Have a joyful and happy Friday, looking forward to talking to you sometime this weekend.
Your,
Pumpkin
2006-11-03 20:42:58 · 6 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She likes you but is working thru some stuff. Give her some room and don't smother her. Realize she can go either way-go closer to you or draw away. Enjoy your time with her and if things develop more it's a plus.
Good luck!
2006-11-03 21:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow ur "Pumpkin" really doesn't know what she really wants. She is confused and not ready to commit herself to a long term relationship as of now. She does enjoy ur company though and is not ready to totally give u up. But she is considering letting u explore ur surroundings a little more. She's highly intelligent and an intellectual at that. She's highly independent and seeking to fulfill her desires sexual or otherwise. She obviously thought u wanted that too without getting too serious for now. By u reaching out so soon and letting her know how u feel about her is scaring her and she's not really ready to make such a commitment with u yet. In her own words she's asking u to be a little more patient with her for now as she explores the depth and realm of her reality. She's also acknowledging that u might be her knight in shining armor. But for now just be a little more patient. Don't rush her into making decisions u will both regret in the long run. If u care or have feelings other that what they r right now, slow down give it time and everything will work out. I pray she is not using u for her sexual pleasures only and leading u on by allowing u to think she wants more of this relationship than what is already there. Good luck and beware! She might also be tiring of u but not just yet.
2006-11-03 21:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that was sweet at least she is trying and i also think if she found out that you put her letter on the web you would be in big trouble this girl has just poo red her heart out to you and you just threw it on the web for every bloody idiot out there to laugh at,SHAME on you.
2006-11-03 23:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by wizardalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...there is something wrong with your girlfriend.
If you want something serious, cut this broad loose. She is "action-packed" with issues and you don't want any of that.
Grow a pair and look for a woman that can reciprocate the feelings you want to share with a partner.
Good luck, slick!
2006-11-03 21:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Bad Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
did another man write this to her??? if he did she obviously is makin someone else happy!!!id talk to her about it and leave her shes not worth the pain and stress!!!
2006-11-04 00:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by RACHEL M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Crap. If you were looking for someone with issues you found her.
2006-11-03 20:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋