I'm a teen who's never had a girlfriend. Finally this one chick has a crush on me but she;s dating my friend! She says she'll leave him if I ask her out so what do I do! How do I ask her out!
2006-11-03 20:25:57 · 34 answers · asked by THAT GUY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't. Don't ever do that. Even if u are desperate to have a girlfriend, find others. There are millions of them. I have an exactly real life experience like u, and it end up chaos. U may end up nothing, only bad experience. Believe me, it is NOT worth it.
2006-11-03 22:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dune 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What everyone here is either forgetting about their own youth or too young to realize is that when you are a teenager, girlfriends and boyfriends is all just a game. It's lots of fun and it's how you learn about the opposite sex and get your experience in having adult relationships. This whole, going out with your friends girl is all just playing at adult relationships. Learning how manipulative girls can be will do you well. She is playing you against your buddy so proceed with caution. You could bust up a friendship for a relationship which almost positively won't last. You will find another girl that likes you if this one does. Wait for that or wait for your friend to break up with her. If I was you, I'd tell your buddy what she said.
2006-11-03 20:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this... What is more important?
A. Having a gf? Which probably wont last. Because its a proven fact that those who leave others for another person usually go looking again because they are board.
B. Having a good friend. Someone who will respect you. Who will be there to pick you up when you fall flat on your face at a party or whatever.
If you were any type of young man, you'd tell your friend what is going on. He doesn't need a gal like that in his life and neither do you.
2006-11-03 20:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by Brandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that?! Can you not find a new face that is as equally interested in you? Are you mentally & physically prepared for the fallout of you actions?! What about when she has an emotion attack and doubts you two hooking up. Are your parents divorced? Happy? I really hope you realize that this is going to prevent your future ability to find a mentally independent woman. or do you prefer playing Superman all the dam* time?
2006-11-03 20:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by lewisthomasp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she worth sacrificing your friendship? what if this chick finds another guy-friedd of yours and she gets attracted to him? then he will leave you for the next guy? i think you deserve some chick who has no baggage. there are so many girls out there. if she is not happy with her boyfriend, then she should get out of the relationship with or without you on her side. she just wanna make sure she has another guy to go to once she breaks up with your friend..and that is not good at all.
2006-11-03 20:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by frandonn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want your first girlfriend to be a two-timer who dumps your friend for you? Are you nuts? Tell your buddy what she said to you and both you and bud can go looking for a couple of "chicks" of value. Unless you do not have any morals, values or ethics, then go for this two-timer
2006-11-03 20:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on...friendship is more important than you actually having a girlfriend for the first time...don't throw it away like that...are you seriously that desperate?...do you truly like her...or is it b/c she just so happened to show you some attention- she could be using you...to hurt your friend...are you aware of that...and do you know that she could do the same thing to you if you two go out..it happened once and is CAN happen again...I think you need to take your time....and go find a girl that you actually care for...
2006-11-03 20:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by 1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how close and genuine your friendship is
with your friend. Only if youre sure shes worth the price of your friendship with him.
Shes a tad cheeky,tho'. My heart goes to your friend.
2006-11-03 20:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do you do? RUN
Do you want to date a skanky chick with no sense of loyalty? Dang dude, you're considering this? What happened to bros before hoes?
Your man card is revoked.
Probation!
2006-11-03 20:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by Bad Kitty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take it from me...dont do it! you may lose ur friend. cute as she may be. think about it theres even cuter "chicks" as u call them . so forget about her. if shes willinmg to leave her boyfriend for you...who else is she willing to leave him for? just get out there find some1 else.
2006-11-03 20:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by licandjay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋