because i have lived in a house of aliens though they are relatives.
2006-11-03 20:51:16 · 15 answers · asked by ss.doha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like you need a friend. Putting it bluntly, get out. You didn't say how old you were, just that you were a man living with relatives? if this is a fact, and your working, start looking for a place of your own. Join some groups, singles, get out before you go down man. Good luck
2006-11-03 21:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is unfortunate indeed. To live in a house full of uncaring or maybe even selfish relatives can be very painful. More painful than if you were living with totally unknown people.
I assume that you are a bachelor. You haven't mentioned your age or other particulars (like if you are working and have an independent income). If you are (1) of marriageable age or not too old to get married, (2) can support a family out of your income and (3) can afford to live elsewhere, i.e. you don't have any obligation to continue to live with the people you are staying at present, I suggest you move out of this place and get married. Your own wife and children will be able to give you the mental peace which you so sorely miss. Hopefully, you wouldn't feel unwanted in your own home and in the midst of your own family.
2006-11-04 10:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry leave the house and GO to a mansion or Just Change U R mind and U must take steps to make them that the people with whom U live. IF U R staying as Pay guest U will have the problem just leave the house and go somewhere like mansion or take a room combined with some others The rent can be reduced.
2006-11-04 08:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... at such moment of life, rather than caring abt ur lonliness, try understanding others. people who dont care about anything develop such attitude either 'cuz they dont get enough love or they get enough materialised life than required. so make them come into reality. cuz they are your relatives if they cant care about you then you can. if not as their relative then atleast being a human being? and u will definitely feel being cared and satisfied.
thats wht i can say...
all the best for everythin, be happy always.
2006-11-04 07:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Havent you heard of hobbies?
Anyway, they are aliens for you, coz you are looking to them with that angle. Have you ever tried changing your angle? Next time whenever they do anything or tell you anything try to get good meaning rather than keeping them thinking as aliens.
2006-11-04 05:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE OUT, AND GET A LIFE, DON'T BE SUCH A SAD SACK, GET OUT OF THE HOUSE AND DISCOVER A WHOLE NEW LIFE AND A SOCIETY THAT IS A LOT MORE TOLERABLE THAN MOST PEOPLE THINK.
2006-11-04 05:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 mix up with people.call ur friends [not like aliens]at ur house and have good time chatting with them and if u dont have any friends try chatting with friends online with ur messenger.dont sit idle and depressed becos it lead 2 strss and eventually suicide
2006-11-04 05:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by akshay_2answer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proactive. Start treating each one of them as if it's his/her last day on earth. I guarantee you- the "aliens" will start behaving like humans.... who care (because you care).
2006-11-04 05:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a cat. Trust me it works wonders.
2006-11-04 20:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by beyondthelimit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people stay where they want to stay.
Life. Get busy living it or get busy leaving it
2006-11-04 04:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by quitbeing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋