My wife cheated on me again and took the kids out of school, we have been together 16 years we got divorced in 2001 because of her cheating, I took her back and now she did it again and she wont stop spreading the awful things about me, I confront her she says I need medication, how can I become a stonger mentally person who will not fall for her lies anymore.
2006-11-03 20:59:28 · 13 answers · asked by eric f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cut the B!@#h loose!! She is a evil person.
2006-11-04 04:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by NONE OF UR BIZ!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let here go. you deserve better
she has totaly no responsebility.
ask family or friends for help dont do this alone.
i would not move too far away for youre kids couse if they need you than at least you are there for them.
try to find a better one.
but not too soon cause if you start a relationship too soon than that one fails also and youre broken again than.
nobody deserves to be treated like that only the ones who did it to somebody else.
make from youre haert a stone and keep in youre mind what she did to you when she start lying again.
plzz dont go back to here you will break
2006-11-04 05:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by kelleke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move Move MOVE. away from her. Dump the kids on her leave don't pay child support change your name and start a new life. She has no sense of reponsibility or repsect. if she has to oun up to her actions and doen't have you as a patsy she's grow up.You need a wash big time. Sell your house and move away with out telling anyone. Go live in an othe country and focus on enjoying your life. It's yours isn't it? Just make sure you don't leave a paper trail.
2006-11-04 05:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did it once and has no regrets she will continue. But twice she hurt you. She will never change. You aren't the problem. She is. Seek counceling and get a divorce. Leave the kids with her and get your self help. You really need counceling. It will help you deal with all of this hurt and anger. Take care and best of luck to you.
2006-11-04 05:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe in yourself. you deserve better than that. Hold your head up high and know that you carry no guilt and she that she does. If you believe and respect yourself you will not want to be with someone that treats you this way, you will also attract a better person to have a relationship with next time as you will not settle for a liar and a cheater.
2006-11-04 05:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by mountain girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason for you to keep the marriage and believe with her lies..and if you do she'll surely do the same thing over and over again..pity yourself men!Find someone who is deserving of your love..oh well, divorce her first before anything else.!
2006-11-04 05:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by chellejohnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for a divorce. You dont deserve to let yourself go through hell. I doubt you can ever trust your wife again. Marriage is entirely built on trust. It is gone. The marriage is gone.
2006-11-04 05:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Go For Broke 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To paraphrase grand dad from the Boondocks,
"Have you tried beating her?"
You need to strengthen your pimp hand and smack that chick! Why are you taking it? For the kids? You are allowing her to disrespect you in front of your kids and they are going to think that these types of things are acceptable in relationships.
Be responsible, be a man, leave her!
2006-11-04 05:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Bad Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheated on you again. and you want to know why from us. because you let her do it the first time
2006-11-04 05:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by quitbeing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her advice and get some medication and move to the other side of the world.
2006-11-04 05:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by ancientcityentertainment 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋