My step dad Left 3 yrs ago and now is back .... how should i act?

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My step dad Left 3 yrs ago and now is back .... how should i act?

ok.... my step dad left on my 15th bday. and 3 yrs later he shows up and has moved in within a week.......
i mean my step dad was like my real father to me.. he was my best friend at a time.... only 2x did he leave me dissapointed.
but i mean he taught me alot and i appricate that... for 3 yrs i didnt hear anything from him... i was convinced i would never see him again...and wished i did...
but now... i dont understand why i hesitat to say i am happy he is back.. why?
why do i feel like if i dont want to see him.. it doesnt make sense!
shouldnt i feel happy...??????????????
and why do i think moving in within the week i saw him so soooon

so please help me anybody?

thank you

2006-11-03 20:41:04 · 6 answers · asked by Je Suis Une Enigme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family

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b/c he's a constant disapointment...he doesn't fit in to the "perfect father" category...he left....maybe you're thinking why?...does he not like you?....did you do something wrong?....what's wrong with him? will he do this again? how long will he stay ?....he probably doesn't like commitment...is my guess...and just likes to run away from it sometimes like a little kid...I don't know him...so I could be wrong...but if my father left for 3yrs and then came back...I wouldn't be the same either...show him what he did was wrong...ask him for a long and detailed explanation ...how can he just walk back into your life like that....like it's nothing

2006-11-03 20:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

The fact that he was away from you for 3 yrs without contact might be causing some distrust in your mind. But remember you agree that he was like yr real and taught you many things etc is something which you should not forget. There might be some reason for him {may be personal} to be away from you for sometime. Have faith and be happy to have received him back. Good luck and good relations.

2006-11-04 04:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by khayum p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋

you're 18
if you live at home with mom it's not up to you to call the shots
mom is the one you should be concerned about
if she's happy don't spoil it for her
if it bothers you that much...move out
if you won't move (for whatever reason) remember what good he instilled in you and accept him just as you mom did
you'll sleep better at nights :)

2006-11-04 04:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by mommyseldest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

because your not happy he left you for there years and u should be hesitant `cause yo don't know how long he's staying

2006-11-04 04:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Zaneta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

2006-11-04 04:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by hnayghh1983 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

suck his balls for him

2006-11-04 04:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋