Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

We're strapped for cash and i didnt know if you have to buy both rings-- im the girl and i dont need both, i'd like it sure but honestly i'd be JUST fine being married to him...so whats the difference between the rings? and when he proposes, can you just keep the ring he gives you until/for the wedding? can he propose with the wedding ring? i know you can do what you want either way, but whats the "right way" to go about this...? what would you do in either situation? (guy or girls point of view)

2006-11-03 22:51:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-03 22:51:12 · 16 answers · asked by tzupy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 22:50:35 · 11 answers · asked by serene 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok what now i have been seeing this guy for four weeks
he is about five years younger then me he fun to be with
he calls me everyday real nice guy but he's my best friends boy
and i fear that this may not be a good time

2006-11-03 22:50:13 · 4 answers · asked by lines 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 22:48:04 · 2 answers · asked by preet 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok what happened is, the people i work with who i thought were friends have been talking about me behind my back and my friend told me it was really personal stuff that happened and was resolved a long time ago.

i'm really hurt because they betrayed me. and they found out stuff i didnt want them to know because it was very embarrassing. my boss knows and i'm scared i will lose my job

should i take a sickie, tell them how i feel, pretend like nothing happened, or quit?

i dont want to quit because i love my job.

what should i do??

2006-11-03 22:47:52 · 21 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Friends

My partner has a very low sex drive and I have a high sex drive. It makes me feel like he is not attracted to me coz it's unusual for a man to not be interested in sex. We have been in a relationship 2 and a half years. I love him but often end up feeling down and neglected. I want to feel desired by the man I love. Do we have a future together?

2006-11-03 22:45:43 · 36 answers · asked by looloo395 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 22:44:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im a 25 yr old woman with a 4yr old son, i work 10 hours a day and am in a very happy relationship. but i have no sex drive at all, is there something i can take to spice up my life????????

2006-11-03 22:43:26 · 10 answers · asked by sylvia c 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 22:42:43 · 15 answers · asked by JIVE TURKEY 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm sure they surprise you sometimes, but do they ever say anything that you wouldn't say, something you just can't understand? there are two parents so I suppose that might make it a little more complicated.. i don't know, though. I'm not a parent

2006-11-03 22:42:05 · 6 answers · asked by willmin 3 in Family

what do you think of the.." Internet love"..when two people are in love with each other, and can't get to meet...................will this relationship last forever????!

2006-11-03 22:41:17 · 14 answers · asked by ~*Angel Of Fallen Stars*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

Im beginning to wonder if my husband is having an affair. monday to thursday he comes home from work, gets changed then goes straight to the gymn, Friday night he goes straight to the pub after works comes home 3 or 4 hours later then if he feels like it has his meal and goes back out till sometimes 3am. On a saturday round about 4 or 5 he goes to the pub again till about 8.30 or 9pm. usually if anybody phones ( and he is in)asking him to go out he doesnt hesitate and takes every opportunity to be out. If I say anything he says he's doing nothing wrong. Any advice please would be grateful.

2006-11-03 22:39:53 · 48 answers · asked by shoefairy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Any ideas for a spacial romantic evening???
I want to surprise my boyfriend.. Something sweet and .... u know....
thank u

2006-11-03 22:35:04 · 16 answers · asked by awg 2 in Singles & Dating

Girls say "I'm too nice." or "I'll get a nice girl some day."
Does that mean I need to become an **** to get a girl?
Why is it so unattractive to be a nice guy these days?

2006-11-03 22:33:36 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are Gemini's slow to get things moving? We went on a first date and he didn't kiss me? We had Great Conversation and there were no awkward silences. We smiled and laughed a lot.
What i want to know is, Are Gemini's shy upon making a first move if they actually like the girl and it isn't a hook up at a club?
Thanks Everyone

2006-11-03 22:32:29 · 18 answers · asked by coolchick 3 in Singles & Dating

What should come first, marring the love of your life or starting a profession.

2006-11-03 22:32:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son is overseas & my daughter-in-law won't allow me to see my Grandson. What should I do?

2006-11-03 22:31:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

that & we became friends.after that i removed my profile.even when i told him that i was not for any relation he wanted to continue.we made a trip to a hill station with our families & met there.now our families are also known.he is a very popular figure in his place with two factories & 120 employees under him.he is decent & good natured.never once he has troubled me or misbehaved with me.we are good friends.i wanted to discontinue but he dont want.without any expectations he wants me as a good friend.am i right or wrong.i am confused. please can somebody tell me what should i do now.we are in contact only thru mail.please give me genuine answer.since our families are known breaking this friendship is also difficult.our sons are of same age & they have contact.

2006-11-03 22:31:48 · 6 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Friends

A few years ago someone (a stranger) tried to rape me, this has made me pretty unsure around guys (i know it's irrational, but can't seem to stop it). People have pointed out I'm very reserved around men, even if I do like them. My question is: if i find someone i like, should i tell them this relatively early on (so they don't think i'm frigid or don't like them if they want to get physical), or not tell them (because i don't want to make a huge deal of it, or put them off). Advice from guys, or people who've had a similar dilemma, appreciated.

2006-11-03 22:31:32 · 23 answers · asked by Nikita21 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 22:28:35 · 9 answers · asked by YumI YaMaGuChI 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 22:28:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anoop D 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont useually dwell on dreams but lately iv been having some really messed up ones

A few days ago i dreamed that i was looking at a photo of my brother. I the background was a man. In the dream I placed this man as my junior school principle - but when i woke up i realised that it was in fact my late grandfather (whom i havn't thought about for ages)

Then last night I dreamed that my family and I were visiting my moms sisters that live overseas. My cousin and I (he is 10 months younger than me) hav a pretty wierd relationship. we respect each other, but we are 2 totally different people.
In the dream i dreamed that we started shouting at each other and basically became enimies in moments - and the rest of my family turned a blind eye to it

Am I being papanoid, or does this have another meening. If so what is it??? Please help

2006-11-03 22:28:13 · 11 answers · asked by jst4di 2 in Family

try to seduce her or flirt with her? if she was single too

2006-11-03 22:25:47 · 19 answers · asked by Pook 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 22:25:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend,i love him,he too.but he wants sex now.i m sixteen.he is crazy of my boobs.he just want to see mine boobs.he also wants to squezze and kiss there.should i allow him.i have given 2 days time to him.what 2 do know.

2006-11-03 22:24:26 · 9 answers · asked by shelly 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy is really nice and I haven't seen him in over 4 or 5 years we were never a couple but I really like him as a friend..am I wrong?

2006-11-03 22:23:16 · 19 answers · asked by andingjuniorhighstudent 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 22:21:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-03 22:21:03 · 8 answers · asked by daniel a 3 in Singles & Dating

I've fallen fast for a man who at first was great but then we hit a rocky patch and nearly split up. I thought it was sorted then he went quiet and i didn't see him for a week. I told him we needed to talk and told him i loved him but needed to know he felt the same. He told me he loved the bones off me. Now its going wrong again. In my head i'm telling myself if he didn't want me he would say but my heart is breaking and i don't know what to do it just feels like i can't approach him about it again because i don't want to keep doubting him. Can any1 help.? I really don't want to loose him as i really like him but is it really hurting....

2006-11-03 22:19:55 · 14 answers · asked by emzie 2 in Singles & Dating