Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

shows some interest before I do.? It kinda turns me off when I know that she is already interested in me before I am interested in her? Any ideas or am I sick? and need to change myself?
I like it when I am first attracted and then she...please feel free to comment but not to insult me.
And often I get interested in a girl and start talking about non-dating stuff, and sooner I lose interest in even asking her out for a date?
Again is this my only problem? or it is commone among guys?

2006-11-02 17:02:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 17:01:34 · 14 answers · asked by sh-t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im goin on my 1st date tommorow. what do i do. we goin to a movie.

2006-11-02 17:01:11 · 4 answers · asked by Eric =D 2 in Singles & Dating

You know you want to.
Just ask and I'll make it so.

2006-11-02 17:00:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The animated picture I had was better looking but people told me it was scowling...

2006-11-02 16:58:50 · 18 answers · asked by loofa36 6 in Singles & Dating

and after 6 years being away from him he now wants to come and join us in america. there's a twist to this because he had an affair with my best friend during that period of time and i was married too. but now divorced. he's still in the middle east right now so i am not really sure if they are still seeing each other or not. should i give it a chance?

2006-11-02 16:58:24 · 8 answers · asked by myzztickah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I dated a guy in the military and he was stationed far away and I met him for the first time when he was on leave. We met through the internet. He was home for a month and the first several weeks we spent every second together. I met his whole family and they would always invite me over, take me to dinner, and take pictures with me and him. He always paid for things, bought me a present for no reason and always told me that he loved me. 2 days before he left I never heard from him again. The last time we hung out he told me he loved me, the next day we talked on the phone and made plans for that night. I called later and he didnt answer. I found out he met another girl and spent those last 2 days with her. I emailed her and he had pretended to call me and break up with me and told her I said I was gonna kick her ***. But I never talked to him, I never said that. Isn't that weird, what happened? Why did he do that? What was it all about? Please shed some light, he wont talk to me.

2006-11-02 16:57:00 · 17 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

Ladies feel free to answer but please do so from your mans preference not yours (I know how it feels etc already).
Do any men prefer a woman to look like a woman and not a little girl? It seems that its fashionable to not just tidy up the bikini line but to remove all pubic hair completely. Any of you men actually prefer a woman to leave her natural growth? A tidy up is not what I mean.. I am wondering if any men actually prefer SOME hair to NONE? and why?

2006-11-02 16:54:31 · 6 answers · asked by punkvixen 5 in Singles & Dating

UGH, its not a movie star either...

2006-11-02 16:53:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend moved to a small town in turkey. She is homeschooled and doesn't have anyfriends! i feel so sad for her! She isnot allowed to have an account so she phoned me and asked me to ask this.
Can you please help her! As always, i will giv e thumbs up in EACH ANSWER! Please!

2006-11-02 16:53:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-02 16:51:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Friends of mine are trying to find ways to head up a Singles Mingles here in NC near our area. Have found others are wanting a full time Location (coffee shop) where singles in the ages of 35-55 can go and meet other singles, besides pubs and churches. If anyone has any GOOD ideas on how to go about this and who I can contact, please share. There are so many single lonely people out there looking for a place to hook up with other single lonely people. Only need a good location and know how to go about getting everyone together...thanks for your ideas and help with this...

2006-11-02 16:51:36 · 2 answers · asked by Terri ???? 1 in Singles & Dating

A couple just got married and on the night of their honeymoon before passionate love, the wife tells the husband, "Please be gentile, I'm still a virgin." The husband being shocked, replied, "How's this possible? You've been married three times before." The wife responds, "Well, my first husband was a gynecologist and all he wanted to do was look at it. My second husband was a psychiatrist and all he wanted to do was talk about it. Finally, my third husband was a stamp collector and all he wanted to do was...oh, do I miss him!"

2006-11-02 16:50:39 · 12 answers · asked by jazi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i have been 2geather for 5 years married one. Latly he has been changing. first of all he turns his phone off when he is at work doing nothing. we have not had sex in for ever, he never can have a normal covwerstation w me it is always yelling, i have caught him lying to me about the stuipid little things. i have gave him all the space he ask for i am always there for him but he never wants to talk to me he never tells me whats gone one he just makes plans and dose not include me.The other nite he acted like he was going to bed w me and we went to bed really earily the next moring he was so tried so i asked him y he was so tried he said he just was well when i got home i got on the computer and a bunch of porn site pop ups appered so i cheaked the history he was up all nite looking at porn and on adult friend finder whiich is a site where u find people to have sex w what could be going on help

2006-11-02 16:49:35 · 13 answers · asked by A soldiers wife 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to talk to him and get to know him better without seeming annoying. When I talk to him, he seems interested, but I have only started conversation once.

How do I start a conversation with him when his sister is right there?

2006-11-02 16:49:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to get married and I am dating someone who is great friend. I'm attracted to her but I'm not sure the chemistry is there. I feel like I should date other people but I don't want to lose her friendship. Is it ok to date someone else while I date her to make sure she is the one?

2006-11-02 16:49:07 · 11 answers · asked by X 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a very serious relationship that will almost definitely result in marriage. My boyfriend occasionally watches porn (not more than a few times a week). It makes me uncomfortable, but I understand that it is a "guy thing" and all that, especially since we are long distance. However, I asked him to promise me to give it up completely once we are together and married. He got angry and would not agree even when I explained at length why I don't like porn (there are several reasons). Only when I basically made him choose between me and pornography did he agree to cut it out of his life once I am wearing his ring. Is this an absolutely ridiculous thing for a woman to ask?

2006-11-02 16:48:37 · 25 answers · asked by Pepper 3 in Marriage & Divorce

get wife to go along . Im afraid she will go ballistic!

2006-11-02 16:47:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ever since my husband immigrated here, he has doubled up on his cigarrettes. Now, I know he is adjusting to the culture and he smokes as a way to relieve stress, but his chain-smoking (more than a pack a day) is becoming too much that I don't phsically want to be around him. The smoke (and I HATE the smell) gets into our sheets, in my car, and he smells so bad that I can't kiss him anymore and don't want him to touch me. I often tell him that the smoke is too permeating that we can't have sex. I tell him to at least take a shower to get rid of the smoke, but he just doesn't do it, so we end up not having sex.
Am I acting out of line in not wanting to be physical and feeling repulsed by his body odor? His smoking never really bothered me before, but now he chain-smokes and I can't be physically close to him.
Anyone know what I can do to get rid of the horrible smoke stench and make it tolerable to be around him?

2006-11-02 16:42:13 · 8 answers · asked by Ms.Kimchi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i seem to be having emotional break down, these days. I dont recognise myself no more.I used to be a very happy girl. When, i'm disappointed, i dont really make it a fuss.I knew myself and what i wanted in life.But now,i'm fading apart.My mood easily swings,i am being hypersensitive, I'm feeling depressed over the things i'm disappointed with,I tend to cry easily and I tend to lie a lot to have some attention.Im tired of living this way for the past months.I want to revive,but i dont know whats wrong with me. Can anyone help me?

2006-11-02 16:42:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has a mother who is fixated on him and him alone. She has undiagnosed mental illness (not joking), and it manifests in being extremely manipulative, draining, and hurtful. My friend has physical symptoms of stress. He loves his mother, and wants to do the right thing, but continuing to be in her life will emotionally destroy him. Should he cut bait and try to heal, or stick with his relationship with her because, after all, it IS his mother. Also, please note, he has real concern that she may hurt herself should he leave, so it's more than just hurting her feelings.

2006-11-02 16:41:01 · 9 answers · asked by Arlene06 4 in Family

How often and why?

2006-11-02 16:39:45 · 14 answers · asked by candy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i love a girl which was my friend sister and she got BF but she still got msg me and she know that i love her and her BF dont even know that she got still msg me but now she haven Msg me after i lend her money. what was happen?

2006-11-02 16:39:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having a problem with my Ex. We have been togethr off and on for about 8 yrs. We have had our share of problems, and unfortunately 2 years ago, I was charged with Child endangerment because I had a few beers and a Semi-Truck pulled ou in front of me. CS and the GAL convinced the Judge that I was "unfit". I really am not. My Ex cusses and yells and is really perverted, even around the kids. I want my baby back! What should I do? I did all of the counseling and everything that CS has required of me...now what. They still offered me a plee where they were supposed to drop charges if I would give them custody. Now I think it is the worst thing I could have done!

2006-11-02 16:38:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have decided to forgivr one another for hurtful things but I can tell he still holds a grudge and is often distant and cold. I have asked him several times about this and he has not changed. Today I found out that the baby is a girl and he and I are estatic...How can I keep him happy about us and our family and ensure that this is going to work between us?

2006-11-02 16:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by Beautifulme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance was separated from his wife for about 2 months before we got together. He had (not legally) custody of their 4 year old son when we got together. His wife all of a sudden wanted A.J. and went to court to get an order of protection saying my fiance hit her (wasnt true) and she got TEMPORARY custoday and a restraining order against him. That was in April 05 and has since expired. She took off with A.J. in Sept 05 and we only have a vague idea that she is in AZ. We havent seen or heard from her since. We cant afford a lawyer or a PI to find her. Is this considered parental kidnapping? The order was only for 1 year and he had visitation every other weekend. He filed two police reports in the state it happened but they said he didnt need anymore since there was a warrant out for her arrest for the prev. 2. What can be done to get a.j back? Can he find her and just take him since there is no legal custody ? He cant file a divorce yet bcause he dosnt hav ne idea where she is. Help!

2006-11-02 16:37:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 16:37:02 · 7 answers · asked by shrimpy 3 in Singles & Dating

Need a wedding gift for couple (very young) that will be living with her parents. I want to give them something special and memorable but everyone thinks they need practical stuff instead. But, how much practical stuff do you need when you're living with your Mom? Don't want to give them anything that Mom will use. Don't want to give them money or gift card. Any creative ideas?

2006-11-02 16:36:53 · 18 answers · asked by tagsfan 2 in Weddings

Well it is my father getting married .. his well let me say wife cuz the wedding is like a week away! I like her.. think she is great.. wonderful.. Very caring person.. we have not always gotten along.. well i have to make a speach after the best man and I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO SAY!

A little about her.. she is a older woman about 46 never married before but this is my dads 4th time! She loves him to no end.. Very nice lady... Love her to deth though i do not tell her enough how great she is... i don't know what else to say about her.. but she is really wonderful.. she cries over everything though.. at the bridal shower i put in her card that i loved her and she cried for 2 hrs..lol

2006-11-02 16:36:28 · 6 answers · asked by ~Mrs.C 4 in Weddings

2006-11-02 16:36:01 · 8 answers · asked by fallin64 1 in Singles & Dating