Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

this sunday I tried to call her-she was at work & could not talk
she said. she was away mon&tues out of town, I called her
yesterday (wed.) about 715pm, and she said she was at the gym
and would call me back- she never called back.
I tried to call her back about 930pm- and she never picked up.
I have already invested time-in this-so I have nothing to lose.
If she was not interested, all she had to say was I think you're nice, but etc.etc.etc.....She is an older woman-in her late 30's and
she is not a young immature girl- so why would she just not
say she was not interested if that was the case.???

I am going to try to call her-for my peace of mind- in case
she got back late from the gym and did not want to call too late
etc.etc...I think she owes me the decency of at least
saying she is not interested if she is not...

Any suggestions (helpful) that anyone has for me??
I would rather call and have her say no&, and know for sure,
instead of playing mind games

2006-11-02 00:31:53 · 11 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating

I had an argument with close female friend, where I asked her why she started acting strange towards (only me) me e.g. practically ignoring me for a week(where we chat every 2 days usually).She said it wasn't me, just other stuff on her mind. At the same time she thought I was dating a girl.Coincidence?

I told her that I'll give her some space and lose contact for awhile, to give her the opportunity to deal with whatever was bothering her. She replyed by saying: "if you want to,if thats what you want,if you're comfortable with that". I was quite surprised by her reaction(sseing we're close friends) was she trying to say something?? (have made up since)

We were meant to meet at the wkn, but that there wouldn't be any serious conversations and that we'd meet if "I still want to"?Is trying to say something with the comment "if you want to/still want to?" (even though I made no reference I wanted to)

Help...

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2006-11-02 00:30:32 · 27 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Singles & Dating

he currently living with his partner of 5 years in rented accomidation, the lease is until next may. he wants to split up with her for various reasons, does he allow her to share flat and take spare room, or ask her to leave? pls help cause hes driving me crazy

2006-11-02 00:30:30 · 13 answers · asked by rfc_1st_to_50 3 in Singles & Dating

I am wanting to have a fall wedding next year, possibly October. I live in the foothills of the N.C. mountains and it is beautiful outside this time of year. Any suggestions for an outdoor fall wedding? Or maybe share any ideas on fall weddings in general.

2006-11-02 00:26:41 · 11 answers · asked by CarolinaGirl 4 in Weddings

2006-11-02 00:25:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for 2 weeks a guy has called me everyday. no talk of relationship stuff, dating or anything. just an hour or two conversation about music movies work blah blah..... he came home for his week off (he works out of town for 3 weeks and is off for a week) and i didnt hear from him the whole week. he went back to work 3 days ago. i dont understand. he said something about comin to see me on his days off.... what should i think?????

2006-11-02 00:25:20 · 15 answers · asked by i_like_bears 4 in Singles & Dating

to what type of girl you are attracted at the one with fair or black or tanned skin the one who wear western but not revaling plz tell me ok

2006-11-02 00:24:42 · 18 answers · asked by tisha s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 00:24:24 · 2 answers · asked by devotionalservice 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Even I have guy friends and I tell them I am in love with another guy..they are gone! Others follow me around like flies and how to get rid of them? I tell them but they don't listen and I don't dress or talk dirty to them so why they can't leave me alone and just be friends?

2006-11-02 00:23:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 00:22:44 · 1 answers · asked by sweet girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 00:22:38 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is in a relationship with this guy she has been dating for a little over a year and since summer started he began to act kind of weird with her. He never called her and they hardly even did anything over the summer and now that highschool has started up again he's been talking and flirting with a lot of other girls and he never hugs or kisses her anymore, he never even says i love you when he always used to do that. I really need help with this i can't stand to see her this way she is thinking all this is ok but i don't think it is. he hardly even agnowloges (can't spell) her in the hallway.......it makes me see mad to see her in a relationship like this. What should i/she do about it? Should i even do anything or just leave it alone??

2006-11-02 00:22:22 · 4 answers · asked by kkdej89 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a girlfriend, we broke up but we still talk. but ever since she found out that i am going out with some other girl she got crazy!! and now we fight all of the time its like why you do this why you do that where do i stand bla bla bla and its get to be really tiring i dont want to hurt her but at the same time i want to do what i need do to!!!

2006-11-02 00:22:11 · 3 answers · asked by americanista96 2 in Friends

2006-11-02 00:21:35 · 16 answers · asked by LG 1 in Weddings

I'm 8 months pregnant, so regular sex is kind of difficult and uncomfortable for both of us with a belly in the way. I've been working on different techniques for orally pleasing my husband, and while he says it's the best he's ever had, I'm still looking for other techniques to turn "amazing" into "mind-blowing". Any tips?

2006-11-02 00:21:03 · 16 answers · asked by Mandi R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

STRESS its some all of us have. I was just woundering how all you deal with your stess so maybe it would help me. TY

2006-11-02 00:20:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok this is acontinuation to my shopping question. Although my friend loves shopping and all, I feel that later on during the day I will be hungry. Once again this is aplatonic friend. I was wondering though if it wouldnt be too wierd to just buy dinner or lunch as a thank -you. That part of my niceness still remains. Being grateful and all

2006-11-02 00:20:11 · 7 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Friends

Gazing, shoulder touching, chest poking and from the back, shirt being nice compliments, a hug outta nowhere, sitting down close shoulder to shoulder distance are some things i can think of. (Ive known her for 1.5 months or so now)

Yes, i may be stupid but hey, im a guy. What im worried about is if ive lost my chance and that she's lost interest. Im so interested in her yet being shy, i withdraw myself or i guess look cold. Now, all of these are dissapearing and its making me wonder - was she/is interested ? If she was, could she still be eventhough its so discouraging now ?

Any comments, suggestions, help ? Ill be hugely appreciative of any assistance !

2006-11-02 00:19:10 · 5 answers · asked by Dabidu 4 in Singles & Dating

Leah & Andy
or
Andy & Leah
and if you do which way

2006-11-02 00:19:03 · 5 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I moved in with my fiance close to 2 months ago. everything's going fine, except when we have sex, i don't think he wants to ejaculate in me. It's not a matter of pulling out either. He just doesn't come. I told him about a week ago i think, to just 'let go'.. and we haven't had sex since. Everything else in our relationship is perfect. Is something wrong with me, or does he just have issues?

2006-11-02 00:18:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she is kinda shy and doesnt like surprise partys. what partys is best for her? what do you suggest?

2006-11-02 00:18:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-02 00:17:47 · 13 answers · asked by nataka 1 in Singles & Dating

I had an arguement with my, well should I say exbestfriend. We have got into many serious fights but always overcame the worse. Now, we got into a fight and I really think it's over. I don't feel an obligation to say I'm sorry and the blame is not on me. But, I don't know if I should pursue it. He's got problems, many problems and I am always there for him but I truly can say it's not the other way around. We both met in college and he has been my friend ever since. I don't know what to do or say. I have said many angry words to him since the fight and I even went to his apartment and tore up all his pictures of us. HE WON'T SAY ANYTHING! I don't know to be mad because he won't say anything back. I think I deserve an answer whether it be angry, mean, or an apology. What should I do besides apologizing? I will not apologize! We both just withdrew from Texas A&M for the semester. So we'll be living in 2 seperate cities (far apart).

2006-11-02 00:17:47 · 5 answers · asked by valerie m 2 in Friends

right here goes,hes just turned 13 so is old enough to get a paper round.we want him to do this to teach him you have to work to live when hes older.but he wont get a paper round or do anything else so i said right no more pocket money.he thinks im a bad dad.am i right or wrong. to stop his pocket money till he gets a part time job. what you think.ps he doesnt want for anything allways nice clothes holidays etc.younger sister [9] no problem at all.

2006-11-02 00:17:24 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how would you know if he is just flirting you or serious with you? and how would you deal such situations?

2006-11-02 00:16:13 · 3 answers · asked by pink2litle 2 in Singles & Dating

Or are we just pervs?

2006-11-02 00:14:40 · 23 answers · asked by cig_bock30 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, big problem for me. I like one professor at my colleage, and it is funny because everybody can see how he look at me. When he speak most of the time he look in me, but but but he is married and he is my profesor. I have to say he is so attractive.
Is anybody here have affair with married professor. :):):)

2006-11-02 00:14:06 · 10 answers · asked by Ade 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 00:13:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What kind of animal IN BED are you and why?

2006-11-02 00:12:34 · 5 answers · asked by tazmanean_devil 2 in Singles & Dating

She goes into Wal-Mart and tells the clerk she wants a refund for the toaster she bought because it doesn't work.

The clerk tells her that he can't give her a refund because she bought it on special.

All of a sudden, the woman throws her arms up in the air and starts screaming!

"GRAB MY BREASTS! GRAB MY BREASTS!

The clerk, not knowing what to do, runs to get the store manager. The manager comes up to the Woman and asks, "What's wrong?" !

She explains the situation with the toaster.

He tells her that he can't give her a refund because she bought it on special.

Once again, the woman throws her arms up in the air and starts screaming,

"GRAB MY BREASTS! GRAB MY BREASTS!"

In shock, the store manager pleads, "Ma'am, why are saying you that?"

In a huff, the woman says,

"BECAUSE, I LIKE TO HAVE MY BREASTS GRABBED WHEN I'M GETTING SCREWED!

2006-11-02 00:11:35 · 12 answers · asked by Citizen 1 in Friends