Gazing, shoulder touching, chest poking and from the back, shirt being nice compliments, a hug outta nowhere, sitting down close shoulder to shoulder distance are some things i can think of. (Ive known her for 1.5 months or so now)
Yes, i may be stupid but hey, im a guy. What im worried about is if ive lost my chance and that she's lost interest. Im so interested in her yet being shy, i withdraw myself or i guess look cold. Now, all of these are dissapearing and its making me wonder - was she/is interested ? If she was, could she still be eventhough its so discouraging now ?
Any comments, suggestions, help ? Ill be hugely appreciative of any assistance !
2006-11-02 00:19:10 · 5 answers · asked by Dabidu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem is that shes stopped doing all these after a while. I then wonder if she was interested or playign with me.
Even if she was, why are the current events happening ? Shes not ignoring me, but theres not much attention.
2006-11-02 00:26:45 · update #1
If she was interested, could it be too late to turn it around ?
Thanks for the answers so far guys, extremely grateful !
2006-11-02 00:46:49 · update #2
pal i know this coz i have faced this myself.. the girl was definitely interested in u.. u screwed up but i guess u have not lost ur chance. immediately ask her out for dinner or coffee and pamper her big time.. and after some meeting.. take it forward
remember one thing.. a girl will never disclose her true feelings to a guy.. she will only give u hints.. so just dont waste time.. all the best.. u will be fine
2006-11-02 00:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by lovefool 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to think about the good moments when she has been affectionate with you and you think she might be flirting or like you. Take that as your confidence and have some courage to ask her out. Let her know you just weren't completely sure if she was into you like that before or friendly so you didn't say anything without knowing but now that you have seen that she has backed off a bit you want to let her know you do like her and that you like her touching and being playful with you;-)
I'm sure she had a crush on you and was unsure herself if you liked her.
if you have time I am going to post a question in a couple of minutes simular to yours. Please read it and try to answer it as best you can. even if it's not what I want to hear,let me know cuz I don't wanna get hurt either.
thanks
Tricia
2006-11-02 08:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be shy, but certainly you're not stupid. She was trying to get your attention, letting you know in subtle ways that she liked you. If you didn't respond by letting her know that you liked her too, she probably gave up. You can try showing your interest in her now by talking to her. But if you don't get the response you want, learn from it and go on.
2006-11-02 08:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Joy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now, it's your turn...let her know in subtle, soft ways that you find her attractive. A playful pinch, a soft breath on her neck...the odd whisper in her ear and if she responds with smiles and giggles, send flowers. Even crazy chicks with piercings in their eyeballs love to get flowers and trinkets. You get her, boy!!!
2006-11-02 08:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never say never, if there's life there's hope. Tell her about your feelings. And stop worrying, you will never know if you never never go.
2006-11-02 08:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by notProudatAll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋