I had an arguement with my, well should I say exbestfriend. We have got into many serious fights but always overcame the worse. Now, we got into a fight and I really think it's over. I don't feel an obligation to say I'm sorry and the blame is not on me. But, I don't know if I should pursue it. He's got problems, many problems and I am always there for him but I truly can say it's not the other way around. We both met in college and he has been my friend ever since. I don't know what to do or say. I have said many angry words to him since the fight and I even went to his apartment and tore up all his pictures of us. HE WON'T SAY ANYTHING! I don't know to be mad because he won't say anything back. I think I deserve an answer whether it be angry, mean, or an apology. What should I do besides apologizing? I will not apologize! We both just withdrew from Texas A&M for the semester. So we'll be living in 2 seperate cities (far apart).
2006-11-02 00:17:47 · 5 answers · asked by valerie m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A face to face discussion would have worked wonders i'm sure. But now that you're so far apart i wonder if there's a way you can see each other. Why not make out time, friends stick together and even if they fight its only true friendships that mends. So try to mend it, it doesnt necessarily have to be by apology but talk things over. Be open. Say how u feel and encourage ur friend to do same. Communicate with the mind to be a better friend, so do not let it turn into a heated argument. So go ahead, talks things, you'll be surprised what'll come out of it and then you know if the friendship is worth holding unto or not
2006-11-02 00:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by girlfunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a friendship... They are not one-sided.
First, you owe him nothing, including an apology.
Next you must realize he needed you more than you him. You took him at face value but he was not who you thought he was....
It should not matter if he doesn't talk to you, there is nothing to resolve.... The friendship is over and done.
Chalk it up to a bad experience and try not to let yourself get into another one.
The fact that he has lots of problems should give you many answers. He needs help maybe even professionally, you are not it, a friend can't help sometimes with deep- seeded problems...
Do not let anyone control your life, do not wait for anything, you control the situation and get on with your life...
2006-11-02 08:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear,we live one life and one life only. You call this guy a friend, to me a friend is someone who loves and cares for and about you above all the kind who is worth keeping. If you let him go because of an arguemnt that can be settled simply by dropping your pride then am afraid you might end up losing plenty of friends. Lastly freindship is about sacrifice and love. Love is about forgiveness and acceptance those are core values that make one's life a constant joy.
2006-11-02 08:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by nataka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes if a relationship is costing more than your willing to pay then time to give it to the wind.
For me I can't take the drama anymore.
2006-11-02 08:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the onnly person who can answer this is the one inside your head xxxxxxx
2006-11-02 08:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by charles m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋