Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

i am 28.few days ago i had my first sex with a prostitute.i told her frankly that i was new for sex.i came out very fast(30 to 40 seconds).but i was not disappointed as i knew that it is supposed to be so for the first time.after 1 week i had sex again but there was no improvement that time also. i came very fast eventhough i did musterbation(about 20 minutes ago) before i did it.now i am very much anxious about my sex.please advise me.

2006-11-02 02:14:59 · 8 answers · asked by masudkbrbh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boy friend have been dating for a while but however my sister and his aunt are best friends (however they are mad at each othe right now) they dont want us dating but i love him and he loves me...should we go against our older family members and continue dating or should we break what we have to make them happy? i really dont wanta loose him and i also dont wanta disapoint my family what do i ******* do!...uh this him texting me now gotta go!

2006-11-02 02:14:17 · 24 answers · asked by alwayslovely3 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13. I have a boyfriend named Aaron. When I'm with him, I feel like I'm floating on a cloud above the earth. When kiss, though, I feel nothing. Is that just because we need to go to the next step, or is he not my soulmate?

2006-11-02 02:14:16 · 16 answers · asked by looking 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 02:14:03 · 16 answers · asked by nicething 1 in Singles & Dating

OK I WENT TO MY FRIENDS BIRTHDAY AND NO ONE WAS HANGING WITH ME SO I TOLD THEM BUT SHE SAID STOP YELLING BUT I WAS NOT SO SHE SAID I CANT TAKE YOUR YELLING GO DOWN STAIRS SO I WENT DOWN STAIRS HER MOM DIVED ME HOME AND SHE DID NOT EVEN TALK TO ME AND NOW ARE FRIEND SHIP IS GOING DOWN THE DRAIN AND I WANT TO STAY FRIENDS WITH HER WHAT DO I DO.

2006-11-02 02:13:50 · 13 answers · asked by Laurissa 2 in Friends

What difference does a blokes past to women, I was always out in my late teens and early 20's.
Drunk a lot and sniffed a lot, but i never got arrested or went out for fights. A lot of my mates were big blokes with skin heads and got into trouble which I avoided but now I'm viewed as they would be, although i never got involved in any fighting or arguements, instead i usually broke them up and i've held down a quality job throughout that period and am now doing really well.
Calmed down now, but would you disclose that you were drinking 3 nights a week and sniffing enough marching dust to use as props in a xmas play or do women care if you have turned over a new leaf.

2006-11-02 02:13:12 · 4 answers · asked by madnesscon 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 02:12:57 · 33 answers · asked by Bossco 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently lots of ladies wanna go out with me. I told them Im not nice anymore, But they said at least im not a jerk or bad boy so when did bad boys and jerks go out of style

2006-11-02 02:12:44 · 5 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Singles & Dating

Not a bad guy, just a terrible husband and father.
I really want my husband out of my life so that I can get a fresh start and give my daughters a better idea of what being in a relationship is all about. Married 17 yrs, 2 early teenaged kids, no cheating (at least I think not!), 13 years w/o ANY physical contact. Think I'm pissed off and ready to move on.....you bet!

He leaves at 6am & comes home after 10pm after a 80 min commute. Years ago, I thought this was a phase - hard work to advance on the corporate ladder. Things got better but since moving to NY he's become a total workaholic. He manages a sm. dept. Manage is the wrong word, because usually he is the only one there and work manages him. He's had addiction issues in the past (smoking, adderall-my daughters, cocaine-years ago). In front of other's he DENY's that he works those hours. He GETS ANGRY if I EXPOSE him. He BREAKS COMMITMENTS, he calls to say he's leaving shortly & doesn't. ADDICT. How do I get him out??

2006-11-02 02:12:24 · 11 answers · asked by flopsybunny99 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 14 year old girl trying to make it as a model. I have a great personality but some people say im a brat(and i can be somtimes) We will just say i have a good attitude and i love having my pictures taken and looking cute. But im afraid my best friend will laugh if i tell her im kind of a model and trying to make it into the model industry. Do you have any suggestions like should i tell her or not?

2006-11-02 02:11:59 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

I have been dating this man for 9 yrs now. When we met I was still married(seperated) I have been divorced for 4 yrs now.Since then he has been sent to Iraq three times.Each time was for one year. Now that he is back I am ready to get married. He says he is too but does not show it. He asked me to marry him in June and I got a ring. But when I bring up marriage it always turns into a big fight. He feels as if I am rushng him. I think I have been very patient .He means every thing to me and my kids. He does very well with my two kids (from previous marriage) and helps me with anything I ask (money or fixing something around the house) In July I told him that I was not going to be his girlfriend in 2007 either we get married before then or we will go our seperate ways. Now here we are in Nov and still dont have a date set. We agreed that the justice of the peace and a reception would be fine. But I still dont have a date and every time I ask he gets pissed. Should I continue to wait?

2006-11-02 02:11:07 · 15 answers · asked by Grown Lady 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a straight male in his early twenties whos likes wearing these styles from time to time, as i find them comfortable, stylish very sexy to wear, and i feel very turned on in them.(also i look good in them)Am i weird?? Although i normally wear boxers, do u think girls will be turned off or turned on if they saw me in skimpy designer undies?

2006-11-02 02:10:28 · 16 answers · asked by happychappie 1 in Singles & Dating

When starting a new relationship, one that you hope will become a serious long-term relationship possibly leading to marriage; how long should you wait to have sex?

Do you believe in the old sayings like "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free". Or just simply that the man will lose interest or not take the woman seriously if sex is offered too soon?

I'm not interested in hearing stories of how one-night stands turned into long-term relationships, because you know that for every time that happened, the person probably had a few other one-night stands where that didn't happen.

Share your opinions please.

2006-11-02 02:10:09 · 8 answers · asked by who-wants-to-know 6 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy.......he's only 16 and he has had sex with more than 5 girls before......but I really like him.....What should I do?????

2006-11-02 02:10:03 · 9 answers · asked by omg 2 in Singles & Dating

I was my ex's first g/f.we might get back together. 1 night we had our first kiss(well his first one,our first together).well it was passionate kissing,followed by touching,I rubbed him down there for a minute or so which really worked him up,like breathing heavy,almost scared lol.(he's 22 now,I'm 24) this happened 9 months ago.we kept our clothes on.it eventually stopped and I let him know I wasn't gonna have sex with him. but then I straddled him and was kissing him and he lightly dry humped me.then we watched more of a movie.I could tell he was uptight.I asked him if he was ok,he said he didn't know. in the car ride home he was spazing out saying he doesn't know what he's doing/he's never done this b4 and his mind was racing a mile a minute. did he get blue balls?Will he get them again if we kiss gently/softly?what can I do 2 make it better 4 him without having sex?

2006-11-02 02:08:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your stepmom has raised you since you were 5 and you are now 23 is it wrong to be in a relationship with her. Even if your dad and her are not together. They have been divorced for 3 years and he does not know what is going on. It just seems that she knows me from head to toe. Im so confused but I love her and my dad.

2006-11-02 02:07:49 · 8 answers · asked by moemoe p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I already $wallow but sometimes it takes ages for him to ***. Any ideas?

2006-11-02 02:06:56 · 33 answers · asked by jowigley 2 in Singles & Dating

ok last semester i really liked a guy and we went out for a while... the day after he broke up with me my friend kailyn sayed oh i really like him im gonna ask him out!!!!! i donno i let that go cause he sayed no but then this year ive been talking to my friend zach online like everyday for like a year and kaitlyn all of a sudden wants to become really good friends with him..... me and him just broke up like 2 days ago and all of a sudden she wants to know his phone number his e-mail address!!!!! he likes to goof around with her and say kaitlyn will you go out with me will u marry me an dshit but he really doesnt like her!!!!!!!! and shes always coming up to me in school and saying oh u know zach likes me know and she calls me and sayes hey should i go out with zach every day i went out with him she would yell it in mmy h=face 12 days 13 days 14 days ITS SOOOOO ANNYOING! and she thinks shes funny! ive tryed talking to her but she takes it as a joke i just need to get her off my hip!!!!

2006-11-02 02:06:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

not asking as a pervert. Really and truly trying to understand so that I can get over it. Is this normal?

2006-11-02 02:06:42 · 13 answers · asked by hoopluvr29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this Kid Ryan he Is 16 and i am 13 he likes me too but my best friend since i will litte says i shouldn't his names Andrew he said i should go out with Rya because he'll just hurt me...But i Really Really like ryan and he asked me out...what do i do?

2006-11-02 02:06:10 · 10 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 02:05:36 · 14 answers · asked by cubsnrs 1 in Family

A couple of male colleagues in work have just been winding me and a female colleague up about it, and now they won't say what it is. We are fairly sure it's some wierd sexual practice and she doesn't even want to know if it's disgusting. But my curiosity needs to find out.

2006-11-02 02:05:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this new guy....at a party.....we hit it off.......want to see each other again...I called him and left a voice message with my phone number in it...he sent me an Instant message and said he got my call but could not call me back because he did not have my number with him...duh...it was on the caller ID as well as my message I left him...

What do you think....game playing? There are other indications of him playing games...like on IM his responses done co incide with what we are talking about....I told him I had a special spot on my neck...and he said "cool"

Maybe he's not that into me...what do ya thinK?

2006-11-02 02:04:25 · 8 answers · asked by Babsygirl 4 in Singles & Dating

I was married to a man I've known since high school. After marriage, he became abusive. He drinks daily, sometimes more than a 12 pack, and I caught him cheating. On top of all of this, he was diagnosed as Bi-Polar and refuses to take his meds. He lies without thought...compulsive and accepts zero responsibility for anything...it's always someone else's fault. I would love to be the one to "bring him down". Thoughts?

2006-11-02 02:04:22 · 11 answers · asked by rivergirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

girlfreinds choices and what can I do for her?

2006-11-02 02:04:11 · 5 answers · asked by hot c 1 in Singles & Dating

if i see a girl who i think attractive how do i approach her and tell her?? i think i have low self-esteem but i'm just scared of rejection or she don't like how i look

2006-11-02 02:04:06 · 5 answers · asked by soutelzfinezt 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 02:03:18 · 4 answers · asked by Vuch 1 in Singles & Dating

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

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34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-02 02:02:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the guy i like will talk to me but he doesnt get the hint that i like him. wat can i do????????????

2006-11-02 02:02:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im torn between two guys, one my ex and a new guy. The ex is desperate to get me back having realised what he lost, and he's become more perfect than when i first fell in love with him. But this other guy deserves a chance does he not? He's been so sweet to me. Do i go back? Or see how things go with the newbie?

2006-11-02 02:02:04 · 21 answers · asked by Chez 1 in Singles & Dating