I'm 13. I have a boyfriend named Aaron. When I'm with him, I feel like I'm floating on a cloud above the earth. When kiss, though, I feel nothing. Is that just because we need to go to the next step, or is he not my soulmate?
2006-11-02 02:14:16 · 16 answers · asked by looking 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next step?...your only 13...i doubt he's your solemate because your only finding your feet but id advise you not to go to the next step...that would be defs the wrong thing to do...your far too young for that. Just enjoy it as you say you feel good around him then whats the problem?
2006-11-02 02:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by chris c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 13, take this time to get to know what you doand dont like, remember though that sex under the age of 16 (for the uk) is illegal, let alone the complications it may cause if it were to happen. If you feel great around him then thats good, its not all about feeling lots of fireworks go off when you kiss etc. Soulmates are very hard to find, and trust me, some people dont even find what they would describe as soul mate. Take it slowly and enjoy being young whilst you can, theres no rush.
2006-11-02 10:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next step? Dont bother. Fancy being a mum at 13? Young love is great and should go no further than kissing and holding hands. 'The One' may be a long time off. Enjoy it while you can but wait to become serious. When hes right you'll know.
2006-11-02 10:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling you are still very young.
Maybe you are in love with the fact you have a bf rather than who he is. i dont no because i dont no how you feel hun. If you dont like kissing him maybe its just the way he kisses.. y not experiment. do experimental kissing lol. it could be realy fun.
If the way he kisses isnt an issue maybe its your heart telling you hes not right for you. you should trust your instincs.
maybe when your around him your confusing love for the kinda love you have for a dear friend and thats why when you kiss its empty. you need to talk to your bf darling.
TRUST me, if your not sure you should go to the next step.. your not ready to. save it darling it will be well worth it in the end.
never let a man pressure u into anything.. ul regret it for the rest of your life.. i no and i do.
take it from someone who has been there hun.
xox
2006-11-02 10:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by afflictedsmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel nothing when you kiss that does not mean you need to go to the next step. You can feel like you are floating when you really care about someone but it doesn't really mean that is your soul mate. Your 13 you have so much time discover your feelings. Just take it slow enjoy your time with him and see how things go and how you feel then. Don't rush please!
2006-11-02 10:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by laura f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR 13??!! you should be playing with barbie not boys? God, at your age the thought of kissing a boy was stupid, I thought they were horrible...really your too young to be thinking of things like that, you have years ahead of you to worry about boys and stuff, enjoy being 13, go out and play with your friends and forget about boys for a few more years!
PS, hes not your soulmate! and next step...do you even know what that is?? No, no going to next step!
2006-11-02 10:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sadbh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the time you still feel like your floating then you know your on to a good thing! but your young so don't expect the heavens to move when you kiss! you've got all that to look forward to, but don't feel like you have to go to the next step before your ready to!!
2006-11-02 10:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next step at 13?? oh hell hun - dont be so stupid - does the thought of prampusing at the age of 14 appeal to you??
Stick to the kissing until youre at least 16! xx
2006-11-02 10:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that you feel magic from hanging around with him but wen u kiss you feel nothing that might be because he is such a good friend to you it is almost to perfect to b true but maybe he is not such a good but too you but only you know. Does your relantionship feel good in the heart or just in the soul?
2006-11-02 10:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by fabulous_catriona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are only 13! I would be surprised if you had feelings at that age beyond the 'funny tummy' feeling! Just enjoy your time with him if he makes you feel like that! x
2006-11-02 12:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋