OK I WENT TO MY FRIENDS BIRTHDAY AND NO ONE WAS HANGING WITH ME SO I TOLD THEM BUT SHE SAID STOP YELLING BUT I WAS NOT SO SHE SAID I CANT TAKE YOUR YELLING GO DOWN STAIRS SO I WENT DOWN STAIRS HER MOM DIVED ME HOME AND SHE DID NOT EVEN TALK TO ME AND NOW ARE FRIEND SHIP IS GOING DOWN THE DRAIN AND I WANT TO STAY FRIENDS WITH HER WHAT DO I DO.
2006-11-02 02:13:50 · 13 answers · asked by Laurissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
is she really your friend? because if she is, then she would not have left you there alone by yourself. she could have introduced you to everybody and made sure that you had a great time. i also think that she is not your friend cuz she does not enjoy your company. the fact that she embarrassed you to her guests and asked you to leave is not in any way a gesture of friendship. so, why do you have to be bothered if this friendship goes down the drain. in fact, it has been in the drain already. you will be better off without her because she does not care for you and don't waste your time on such a person. it is you who is a real friend becoz no matter what she did, you still want to save this friendship. look around for someone who deserves your kind of friendship and i am sure that when you do find that someone, she will be a lucky person to have you.
2006-11-02 02:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
were you yelling? After all it was her birthday ... it was her day to be in the spot light.....What she did may have been a bit harsh.....But look in the mirror ...if your were disturbing the gathering .... was what she did really that bad to preserve the party for her and the other guests?
Some times it cant all be about you and the attention you feel you need .... life means taking turns in the spot light. True friends will have fall outs and re-connect after cooling down ..... give her and your self the time and space to do alittle reflection on the moment.
Some times it's better to sit quietly in the corner and appear to be stupid, rather than open your mouth and remove all doubt!
2006-11-02 10:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her 2 pay more attention 2 u. If she's really ur friend she'll listen 2 u & start talking. Good luck. :)
She might not want 2 b ur friend anymore. Something similar happened 2 me 2 years ago & I told her if she doesn't like me anymore then she doesn't need 2 talk 2 me & we got in a huge f8.
2006-11-02 10:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by lakersfan_4life1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she your FRIEND??? what kind of friend is that? But anyway, maybe she was a bit upset or so, wait for a day or two, and talk it out and patch back the friendship. juz asking, why didn't her mum persuade you to stay? Maybe you were a bit wrong, bcoz it was her b'day so she's the b'day girl and...i think b'day girls who have parties are rather high and mighty [some not all ] on their b'days. Good luck to u!
2006-11-02 10:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Chemgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to broaden you horizon and future. Start going out on your own and meet some new people. Your friend is quite self center as are most people. So it is time to get out from this relationship and see who else is out and about that you could met and strike up a friendship with. Good Luck
2006-11-02 10:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel. But sometimes there just not worth it. They'd usually act like that when they're trying to act cool infront of there other friends. I say let her go. Ur just waisting your time and energy.
2006-11-02 11:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call ur friend and tell her ur mind.ask her if u have offended her lately .if she has no reason for her action and she is not ready to apologise and adjust,live her alone u are the best in ur word and some body smewhere appreciates u more than gold.belief in ur self ,u can do without her if she want it that way.be strong.
2006-11-02 10:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your friend has some serious issues...if she treated you like that, that was pretty messed up..if i was you..i would try and talk to her, and if that doesnt work....i personally would be the biggest ***** in the world everytime she came around..if you try to talk to her and she doesnt wanna try and work things out, then she obviosly isnt worth worrying about...good luck
2006-11-02 10:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by *~Angel_Eyes~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. What your friend did was pretty rotten. I think you should distance yourself from her for awhile if she continues treating you badly.
2006-11-02 10:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by jen m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat dumb frens u got.. invited u to a party and didnt even hang out or chillz with u.. they r freaks.. anyway tell her nicely and explain wats goin on abt the party day.. ask her why she treated u like a dog? why she said u were shouting and yelling?
2006-11-02 10:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by WM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋