if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
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and then she just sent this message to him today
"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
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i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it
2006-11-02 02:02:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The girl is still sprung on her ex....most notably, the ex is probably like "F THIS B*Tch, tellin me we need to date....she ain't no good" and has taken the proper procedure of dismissing this woman from his life entirely....which is a good thing.
As far you my friend, I think you should do the same....APPARETNLY this girl made a mistake somewhere along the lines of that relationship, especially the part about 'dating around' meaning she didn't know what she wanted, then unfortunately seems you've been the rebound, and now she wants where she was supposedly happy back.
So with that kind of action...her feelings toward you are very weak, or there's none at all. You need to relay the message to her that she needs to find what she truly wants in life before usin the sh*t out of dudes, and don't start it with you, cause i can assure you she's gonna leave you or cheat on you quite quickly if the ex decides to grab some booty for old time's sake. Good luck.
2006-11-02 02:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a B*TCH! As a woman, I know how it feels to regret leaving someone, that's where she's at, but she doesn't want to risk being alone, and that's what you are. You deserve better, let her go... and how did you get the messages?... Careful now, hacking into email accounts IS illegal, even if it is easy...
2006-11-02 10:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by EnglishKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is still hung up on him, and yes, we can hide our feeling seeming fine on the outside. Call her on it, ask her how she would feel if you were trying to contact your ex, and ask her why she feels the need to still talk to him, what will she get out of it. Those questions should give you some answers.
2006-11-02 10:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a typical young girl...hasn't clue #1 about what she wants. If I was you I'd run now and run fast. No sense in being with her until she figures out what she wants...usually it ends up being somebody else.
2006-11-02 10:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by fishman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants her cake and eat it to. Don't enable her, get out of this relationship.
2006-11-02 10:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by noonee333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound good..
She is just looking for someone to cheat on you with...
Get rid of her sooner rather than later...
2006-11-02 10:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gurl is playin your A*$ no joke
2006-11-02 10:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by AlOnEiNtHeRaIn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋