Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

I'm throughing a New Years Eve party this year for my family and friends' and I'm looking for any Ideals anyone might have to help me. Can you please help? Decorations, entertainment, Food, or even alcohol. Thanks.

2006-11-02 02:01:47 · 7 answers · asked by Littlebit1977 1 in Friends

Do you prefer a guy that has gone out with a lot of women(like a player) in the past or a guy thats had like two or three?

2006-11-02 02:00:48 · 25 answers · asked by Taco Bomber Baby 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 02:00:19 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright- I'm going to try and make a long story short...

I was with my 18 month old sons 'father' for 2 years, We were friends for 5 years before that, We had our fair share of ups and downs, Including quite a bit of domestic violence (him abusing me), As well as cheating..Anyway- I got pregnant, And 5 months into it, He decided to go back to an ex gf, Who had just given birth to his child. Afterwards, He claims he still wants to be involved in my childs life, That he will help w/what he can etc...I called him the night before I was to go in and be induced with my son, All he could do was yell and scream at me, And tell me what a horrid person I was etc..So he wasn't there for the birth of my son, As a matter of fact, After I had my son, I realized, I wasn't going to deal with all of the drama that would be if I were to let the 'SD(sperm donor) be involved in his life, So, I told him, I didn't want any contact with him what so ever, As far as I was concerned, he was dead to me...

2006-11-02 02:00:18 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

My boyfriend is turning 17, he's a Junior in High School, and plays Varsity football. I'm not too sure on what to get him! Any ideas?

2006-11-02 02:00:08 · 22 answers · asked by chandee_international_beauty 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 01:59:42 · 34 answers · asked by PRINCESS! 2 in Singles & Dating

They are like brothers and my husband ran off with some ugly girl, we have all known each other for years. the friend want to get together. he wii only be home for 10 days.

2006-11-02 01:59:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so, I've been hanging around this girl for 2 or so weeks now. She flirts with me and we hang out alot. I really like her, but there's only one problem.

She's got a boyfriend out of state.

How should i continue with this? Should I date other people and wait for her to break up with him or should I just continue hanging out with her? I'm really torn about this because I had vowed i would never mess around with another guy's girl, but she's just too awesome not to talk with. But i dont want to date other people have her assume that i dont like her.

The thing is, she never mentions her boyfriend when we're together, and she's never asked me before about who i liked.

Thanks!

2006-11-02 01:59:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Snowballing. I just learned what that is. As a male, if I do that, does that make me bi? And has anyone done that? I need guys and girls on this one.

2006-11-02 01:58:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 01:58:45 · 11 answers · asked by Sweetness 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 01:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are getting married.I have a 4 month old son.His father isn't paying support and doesn't call at all.His father also lives two states away(I moved back to my home state for family support since i had a newborn and the father proved to be someone who wasn't worthy of children by commiting crimes and abandoning us).Now I have met a WONDERFUL man who is EXTREMELY loving it's unbelievable.He's in the military and wants to marry me and adopt my son.So if the biological father isn't paying support or hasn't made effort to see or call me and his son about his well-being, can my fiance adopt him after we're married without causing a confrontation with the biological father?How can we get this done?BTW I feel that this is whats best for my son because the biological father isn't a good role model.He has felony charges pending against him for robbery and shows no effort of wanting to be in his sons life.

2006-11-02 01:57:33 · 11 answers · asked by lil_sweetnothings7806 1 in Weddings

I've been seeing this guy for over two months. We've only been out once because of my busy school schedule. He's also busy juggling three positions (I recently found out he carries three cell phones, two of which were issued to him by his job(s) and the third is his own personal cell phone.) We talk as often as possible and text each other little messages during the day to let the other know we're thinking of them. But sometimes, when I text him back, he doesn't respond. I noticed it in the beginning but didn't think much of it. Now it's getting annoying because I feel ignored. I know that he hasn't lost interest in me and this is probably due to his hectic work schedule. But I feel like a guy shouldn't do that, especially so early on. Am I being too demanding or self-centered? Should I mention it or just let it go?

2006-11-02 01:57:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok last week i was talkin to this dude right and he said that he did not have time to think about a girlfriend and he had to think about his grades and job. but he does not ever go to class so apperlanty he is not to worried about his grades right. ok then friday wheni got off the bus he asked myu best friend if she would **** him. then she said no and he came to school with a hicky on his neck and swear up and down that it is a slow roaster burn from work butif that was the case then he would of burnt his arm also right. so plz help me

2006-11-02 01:56:56 · 5 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

you emotionally, and mentally

2006-11-02 01:56:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

its quite some time tha' I 've stepped out of my teen years,the most expedient time I think for one to develope complexes like these,electra or oedipus I mean.But in my case prob is becoming far more gruesome now as I m 26,my relation with my dad never been good but it's never been this bad either,the gulf seems to be widening with every moment we come across even though living under a same roof.I surely 've inherited many things from him, tenacity n stolidity r the ones which I can name here.he surely loves me as a part of his body as I respect him too as an integral part of family but only this much, he ain't ready to show his love as I try to shun from the times where my respect for him can get shown,then there's some sundry injustices as well which I think both of us 've been doing to each other,being the eldest son of the family I want to mend these gaping fissures in the once-solid family structure,any one with personal experience ?how to overcome such inextricable plight?

2006-11-02 01:56:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i know this girl that has ahrd time meeting a guy. it seem like everybody she meet is rude and have no morals and very young and stuiped, but she did meet this guy whom is cool respestable to her kids and is also good to her, but the thing is he is married but he claims that he love her and by far he is the only man that is good for her, but he do have that hang up, so ladies my ? is would u settle for love in that matter?

2006-11-02 01:55:32 · 23 answers · asked by izzo808 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know exactly what to do...it'd be great if some of you could give me a couple hints...?

2006-11-02 01:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by The Nutmeg Master 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 01:53:24 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

B/c...I'm just bothered by him...He seems 2 always wanna b up under me now...But...We dun't tlk on da phone...b/c he always works...Why do i really wanna break-up?!

2006-11-02 01:53:24 · 12 answers · asked by SyMoNe H 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked them what is wrong, and they all say nothing. But they have all stopped calling me. I know I didn't do anything wrong.. So, should I keep pursuing them, by calling ect. or just wait it out?

2006-11-02 01:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by Leanna G 1 in Friends

he is 31 years old and he is a diabetic. he has no trouble acheiving orgasm but actually c u m ing is a whole other story. if the mood is not just right and he is not 100% relaxed he won't c u m a drop. he says he still feels as much pleasure either way and right now the last thing on his mind is children. i already have one and we are happy with that. but i am young and he wants children of his own someday and i do want at least one more. so if we continue to be together will this affect our ability to have children? oh and i am not relying on this as a form of birth control. i use the pill and condoms.

and and another thing.. a few years ago he had his sperm count checked and he has a high count but a low volume. but alot can change in a few years.

2006-11-02 01:52:19 · 5 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Singles & Dating

Me & my chinese wife r together for 18 yrs, hv 9yr kid. Im 60 n she 40. She used to be a good housewife but since she started online chatting, mainly with youngmen, she has become a challenge for me & my kid. Now she wants to live a free like bird life, no intention to remarry. Loves kid but loves more her personal life. Even says I can take the kid to India. I live in overseas, where life is
far better, India is not my priority though have enough social support. I am afraid to take my kid to India, since he is born/brought up in o/seas and may not adopt a new
atmosphere if taken to India. He is good boy. For him mum/papa both r imp & wants to live with both though shows
some interest to go back to India. I am afraid, if I take him to India, I may fail. Wife wants to start a new life & her own life is more important now than anything else. My wife many time disturbs me & asks for quick divorce but I am avoidg keeping in view future n welfare of my kid. I rqst for matured advice

2006-11-02 01:50:51 · 15 answers · asked by La Kho Kho 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 01:50:16 · 49 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

Thought I would fall for one and slept with him (incredible sex) when the other came along. I dropped the first because of disagreement we had, then started dating the second guy. Then the first guy starts texting/emailing me wanting to see me again (I know for what :)) Now I am talking to them both (not sleeping with both) and I feel like an idiot because I want to be with both, without the other knowing (which is so wrong)! I know I cannot do that. I know I am being selfish because I want to hold on to both in case the other doesn't work out. The first guy is such a great lover(I mean really great), the second guy is not good in bed (suffers from ED), but he's a good man. How important is sex in the long run? I know this is messed up. I fantasize about the first lover, but I know I cannot have both of them.

2006-11-02 01:50:01 · 12 answers · asked by wwjd 2 in Singles & Dating

Twice i thought i found the right guy; the ist lied about his status, his already married and the second cheated on me. Im terribly hurt but was able to move on, i want to get married yet i cant find myself trusting again the way i did...what can i do to overcome this feeling?

2006-11-02 01:49:35 · 11 answers · asked by gie 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a bad grade on a history exam (College). My best friend knew I was upset about getting the bad grade. I wrote the teacher an email asking her for some additional work or extra credit, she replied basically NO NO NO NO READ WHAT THE SYLLABUS SAYS NO NO NO NO.(haha)

I wrote my friend text message "no, she won't budge with ANY help." after I received my professors email
He sent me back in a text message "You must have pissed her off with your incredible charm."
Some info: 1.5 years ago I told him to stop calling me, never call again, because I was really pissed at him. His attitude is poor sometimes.. He recently joined a fitness club (August) I belong to, I first saw him there, then I couldn't believe it was him !!! The next day I went over and put him in a headlock (a friendly one), then blahh blah blahhh... we finally start talking again after more than a year. OK. My best friend is a PLAYER!! big time player.

He's 26 and I'm 24

2006-11-02 01:49:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so last night my b/f's ex called AGAIN last night....when i said something he got mad ( as usual) and was like " i dont know what you want me to do" so called and checked his voicemail...and she said she was coming back home from college, and she wanted to get together. When I asked if she left him a msg he said no. Is this b/c he doesnt want me to get mad...or do I have a cheater on my hands? I told him to call her back and tell her to stop calling, but he refused b/c " he HATES her", and wants nothing to do with her. Is this sketchy or it just me? pls give advice....I feel like Im going crazy. All night long I stay up wondering if hes cheating, Im depressed, and have no one else to talk to.
xoxo
randi

2006-11-02 01:49:03 · 6 answers · asked by RANDI B 1 in Singles & Dating

If a woman is over 35 with no baggage (emotional or otherwise) is she ever likely to be asked out by a guy around the same age? Or do men in their mid to late 30's only date young woman?

I know you don't know me and it does have a lot to do with the person as an individual - their looks (I'm not a fugly), their personality (I'm loads of fun) - but should I start housing stray cats now?

2006-11-02 01:48:36 · 5 answers · asked by ShoCh 5 in Singles & Dating

Wat u girls like in a boy? or man..?
Height?
Weight?
Body Shape?
Personality?
Way Of Talking?
Style?
Brain?
Or other things u want in boys/men.. jus suggest anything.. i would like to hear.. =)

2006-11-02 01:48:21 · 11 answers · asked by WM 2 in Friends