its quite some time tha' I 've stepped out of my teen years,the most expedient time I think for one to develope complexes like these,electra or oedipus I mean.But in my case prob is becoming far more gruesome now as I m 26,my relation with my dad never been good but it's never been this bad either,the gulf seems to be widening with every moment we come across even though living under a same roof.I surely 've inherited many things from him, tenacity n stolidity r the ones which I can name here.he surely loves me as a part of his body as I respect him too as an integral part of family but only this much, he ain't ready to show his love as I try to shun from the times where my respect for him can get shown,then there's some sundry injustices as well which I think both of us 've been doing to each other,being the eldest son of the family I want to mend these gaping fissures in the once-solid family structure,any one with personal experience ?how to overcome such inextricable plight?
2006-11-02 01:56:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So what does all that have to do with your mom? Oedipus complex is an erotic desire for one's mother.
2006-11-02 02:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you telling us that you are very confused because it sounds like you are, and therefore you convey your confusion and in turn we are very confused also.
Stop over analyzing. The mind is a trap.
Human values are in place. Obey the rules that you know. Live by them because time and time again they have proven to be the only landmark you can trust.
2006-11-02 02:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋