B/c...I'm just bothered by him...He seems 2 always wanna b up under me now...But...We dun't tlk on da phone...b/c he always works...Why do i really wanna break-up?!
2006-11-02 01:53:24 · 12 answers · asked by SyMoNe H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will not get out of this w/o hurting him, if he loves you and it seems as if he does. Why you want to break it off is a question in which you already know the answer to. Your are just looking for a similar answer to yours to help you feel better about what you think you must do. Working is always a good sign, it illustrates independence as well as a good provider. This guy obviously is totally infatuated by you because he wants to be with you after long workdays. This is incredibly awesome, compared to the alternatives. What if he wasn't working at all and wanted to be "under" you at all time, wouldn't that be a greater issue?? Most men, opinionating, would not even want to be bothered by anyone, let alone a woman after a hard, long, day's work. I think you need to let him go, but do it now, don't wait. Because it seems as if you don't want a good man, you want a lazy slacker who probably would only want sex or some other form of service from you with no ties. So, you should let him go, so he can be with a "real" woman, one who will appreciate his hard work and his loving affection. No disrespect, but, you don't deserve him.
I wish you nothing but the best in life. Hope you make the right decision. Luvu
2006-11-02 02:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask yourself the question of why you really want to break up. How long have you been together. What is really bothering you other thatn he wants to be up under you all the time. The reason he wants to be around you so much maybe because he works a lot and wants to make up for lost time. What do you want? If you could change anything what would it be? If you're not feeling it then you have to make the choice to end it. There's no easy way about it, feelings could possibly be hurt, you just have to tell him it's not working out if you feel that way.
2006-11-02 01:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is at one extreme or the other with you. He has no *middle* ground for your relationship. He works all the time, so when he isn't working and he can be with you, he wants to be where ever you are, sounds like an awesome compliment of love on his part, if you ask me. You may want to ask yourself if you are ready or looking for the same things in a relationship that he is. You may not be. That may be why you are wanting to break up with him. Blessed be
2006-11-02 01:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. But you can lessen the pain. Avoid cheesy lines like "It's not you, it's me" and alike and definitely don't begin the breakup with "You're such a great guy any girl would be lucky...". Say you're sorry, tell him what's bothering you and let him talk.
2006-11-02 01:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by selene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe instead of "breaking up" you could just take a "break" and breath a little, get your bearings so you can make a better decision... Nothing wrong with that!
2006-11-02 01:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unfortunate, but there's no way to do it without inflicting some hurt. Just do what you can to keep it as painless as possible. Be kind, but be firm too. You'll both get through it.
2006-11-02 01:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mary C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do it without hurting him.
Asking why you really wish to break up with him here is rather pointless - you are the only one who can answer that.
2006-11-02 01:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by steven b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's stable to take issues sluggish. tell him what you like and do unlike. say something like do it greater softly, slowly, no longer so deep. it would be exciting for the two certainly one of you, so continually say what you desire and don't desire.
2016-10-03 05:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by catherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't...it's gonna be a little painful but honesty is always best.
2006-11-02 01:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by Zelda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know when it's not right. just say to him 'you've meant a lot to me but i need to go my own way, thank you for caring for me' or something.
2006-11-02 01:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by jimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋