Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

My wife of 11 years is dying of cancer. Before she was diagnosed we were in the process of separating. She suffers from severe depression, and needless to say our love life disappeared when she started antidepressants. Regardless of what I tried to spark the relationship, she just turned me down - to the point I got tired of it and stopped asking. She's 49 and I'm 33 - that also has some factor in the matter as well as at this point in my life, I'm ready for kids. The Cancer has spread and is incurable, so it's a matter of time before she does die from it, but it could be several years. I told her that I would stay and see her through this journey. I feel I owe her that at least – we’re still close – like best friends.
I think I'm at the point that I want to start dating again. I have had a couple of women approach me and express interest. They know the details of my wife's situation, and my unhappiness. Do I tell my wife I'm seeing others, or go behind her back?

2006-11-02 01:10:26 · 16 answers · asked by Benjamin P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm taking driving lessons and am nearing the finsih line, my sister let me go on her insurance, she has come round a picked me up loads and taken me out driving and covered her car in those sticky L plates even though she loves her car. When I made a mistake a went down a one way st and got pulled over and given 3 pt and a fine she gave me the confidence to get right back at it and fort to the bitter end with the police. (I'm just a criminal). I'm a bit skint and have about £20 to spend what can I do or get for my sister as a thanks? (she pretty much has everything already) Thanks in advance for your answers x

2006-11-02 01:10:24 · 23 answers · asked by Lizzie 2 in Family

I'm K****, from St. Joseph's PU College, Bang
alore. There's a college fest goin on at my college n this is de best in India in PU level.
Almost all de boys n gals come here from different colleges, they have fun with each other, nactually de thing is i'm left alone. De reason's not that i'm bad in any ways or somethin, it is i donno how 2 get closer 2 gals. N i'm scared2 try it also.
I'll tell everythin about me if any gal would like 2 be a friend of mine n come with me n v'll have a good time for sure.
Plz don't mistake me, i'm a good by n u'll know it
I'm 16, 5 ft 10", appr 70 kg, well built - i play all de games exceot hockey, i sing, i dance, i act, i talk, n so on.
I asure i'll b a great friend, PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ PL Z
E-Mail me at kirans_home@yahoo.co.in


I would'nt have given my ID if i was a jerk
PLZ help me.

2006-11-02 01:10:00 · 2 answers · asked by Kiru 2 in Friends

2006-11-02 01:09:08 · 35 answers · asked by carrot_corriander 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 01:09:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 01:08:37 · 27 answers · asked by bea 1 in Singles & Dating

iv just received an e mail asking if i want to try " snowballing".....
please tell me what this means.......
thanks x

2006-11-02 01:07:45 · 28 answers · asked by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 01:07:16 · 3 answers · asked by william t 1 in Friends

it takes a month for me to fall in love! is that weird or normal?

2006-11-02 01:06:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 01:06:02 · 14 answers · asked by Lynn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so me and my girl friend have been dating for 5 years. in this time we only broke up once and that lasted two days. now she broke up with me agian. She says she dosn't feel the same anymore. But i still thinks she loves me. I meet up with her again and after a long talk she told me she needs time. My question is how much time should i wait and if i should try and contact her in a day or two and try and work this out.

2006-11-02 01:05:16 · 22 answers · asked by detox_denny 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 01:04:36 · 8 answers · asked by neelu k 1 in Weddings

guys, if a girl comes up to you and tells you she likes you, do you think she's telling she likes you as a friend or more.

2006-11-02 01:04:33 · 20 answers · asked by <3*tinkerbell<3* 1 in Singles & Dating

By your partner, room mate, or anyone.
Please tell me how you feel at one of those particular time

2006-11-02 01:03:24 · 13 answers · asked by umcris 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 01:03:00 · 7 answers · asked by Jonesy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 01:02:51 · 6 answers · asked by gq w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-02 01:01:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you knew you couldnt be with a girl you have been friends with for a long time and you know really care about her, would you still be friends with her? And if you did not want to be friends anymore would you tell her or just disappear without a word?

2006-11-02 01:01:37 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i had an unusal misunderstanding.
it has been horibal time without talking.
but i think she dose not seem interested in talking to me anymore.
but it may be my only prediction.
i want to talk to her!! again.
plese suggest!!
should i talk or simply forget my friend....

2006-11-02 01:01:36 · 10 answers · asked by ud 1 in Friends

.........look like a praying mantis??

http://www.tastefulcelebs.com/hilton/paris-hilton%20esquire02.jpg

http://www.mrpetermore.com/blog/pics/Praying%20Mantis%20.jpg

2006-11-02 01:01:16 · 19 answers · asked by Little Black Riding Hood 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done in the bedroom? And what was the turn out? What, really, I'm just currious. Maybe I need some Idea's.

2006-11-02 01:00:58 · 7 answers · asked by Slim 2 in Singles & Dating

And we really need to get that new back door put in. I told him he should just go buy a new one that works so that he can start using the back door but he got mad at me and told me I didn't have a clue as to what I was talking about. What would you do??

2006-11-02 01:00:51 · 11 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

what is friendship??

2006-11-02 01:00:22 · 2 answers · asked by vivek 2 in Friends

my best frnd and his girl frndis r in love frm past 5&half yrs. Frm past 6 months she is neglecting him & now she is sayin she wants freedom 2 njoy her college life even though he lets her go 2njoy within certain limits. ma frnd loves her so much but she is not responding that much as earlier.
Again now, aftr my frnd talking with her on phone she accepted him. i dont understand her intention at all. does she really loves him now? i dont thnk yes, bcoz she has got xams frm nov.14 & i thnk she wants 2 accept him, so that he does not argue abt love with her.
wht is the real fact behind this? wht shud i do 4 him as he is ma best frnd?

2006-11-02 01:00:09 · 7 answers · asked by bublu 2 in Singles & Dating

I always keep in touch with her. I ring her, go round to her house and text her to see how she is. I never hear from her otherwise. All effort comes from me. Shall I just throw in the towel now?

2006-11-02 00:59:51 · 41 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Friends

...that I really fancy! I live in on a new development and started to notice this guy around. Not only does he live on the same development, he lives in the same block of flats as me just down the corridor on the same floor! We've bumped into each other a couple times over the space of about a month but said nothing more than hi. His is a 2 bed flat so he may have a girlfriend (or hopefully just a flatmate!). I may not see him again for goodness knows how long - what should I do? Or should I wait for him to make a move, if at all! Maybe whatever will be will be....what do you think?

2006-11-02 00:59:27 · 12 answers · asked by long_luscious_lashes 3 in Singles & Dating

I am going to tell the girl I like my real feeling tomorrow. What will you advise me?

2006-11-02 00:58:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We lived together for more than a year, I don't believe in cohabitation but gave it a chance for the first and I think for the last time. He never brings the subject of marriage and I think that living without marriage is a waste of time.
Anyway, how can I let him know what I want without appearing like I begging for something???

2006-11-02 00:56:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

impotant

2006-11-02 00:55:23 · 15 answers · asked by coco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im almost 25 and ive never had a girlfriend, (which just sux) how else could you describe it, i cant work it out, i make decent money, im not an idiot, (i hope not anyway) i treat all people with respect, im open and fun loving, my standards are defenetly are not to high, im not a neady person, all i want is to find a nice friendly girl how likes to travel have fun, id even support her fully in eveyway, just to hang around me, (WHY THE HELL CANT I FIND ANYONE).

2006-11-02 00:54:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating