wht is the real fact behind this?

Question

my best frnd and his girl frndis r in love frm past 5&half yrs. Frm past 6 months she is neglecting him & now she is sayin she wants freedom 2 njoy her college life even though he lets her go 2njoy within certain limits. ma frnd loves her so much but she is not responding that much as earlier.
Again now, aftr my frnd talking with her on phone she accepted him. i dont understand her intention at all. does she really loves him now? i dont thnk yes, bcoz she has got xams frm nov.14 & i thnk she wants 2 accept him, so that he does not argue abt love with her.
wht is the real fact behind this? wht shud i do 4 him as he is ma best frnd?

Answer 1

First of all, your question is almost unintelligible. What is your friend proposing to this girl that she has to accept?

A lot of times when one part of a couple go off to college and meets other people it will put stress on the relationship. These two people have been going together a long time. It seems like the girl is tired of the relationship.

Maybe they should remain friends but each start to date other people and see if the relationship can last.

It is scientifically proven that romantic love lasts 3 years. If a couple have a lot of common interests and are committed they can last for years but romance is usually something your have to renew every few years or so.

Tell you friend to discuss dating others with his girl and see how she feels.

Answer 2

After being with someone so long sometimes people grow old of one another. She probably doesnt like not being able to experience college life like she always wanted. If your friend REALLY wants to keep her he needs to give her more freedom. College is an experience one needs to enjoy and if she misses out on a lot of it then she'll despise him for it and any problem she has she'll blame him. She still loves him evidently or she wouldn't keep going back to him or still be sticking around. She just wants a little bit more freedom i'd say.
She could have cheated on him or been with someoen else and then came back when that didnt go well aslo...When someone start straying from the relationship their heart usually isnt in it as much as it was in the beginning. Your friend needs to decide if he wants her no matter what (and if so then give her freedom) or if he doesnt trust her.

Answer 3

You should go to college for him, that is if you're going to represent him. Because personally I don't understand a thing you have written

I suggest the friend does what the girlfriend is doing attend college and enjoy. If he isn't going to attend college he can hang up the relationship - why would she date him when she's got hunks walking around campus studying to become, doctors, engineers, accountants, business men - he has got some pretty tough competition.

Answer 4

provide her the freedom she is calling for, you won't be able to and does not want to charm to close on to someone who's being decrease than straightforward. She for sure needs as a lot as now persons and is attempting now to not wreck his emotions. enable her see what's for sale and he might want to do an same. in the adventure that they are meant to be at the same time they'll finally end up at the same time. If not a minimum of he will comprehend, he might want to provide her the freedom she is calling for and flow on and performance some interesting of his own. God bless

Answer 5

Not much you can do, just be there as his friend. Maybe your friend is a little controlling, I don't know. Maybe his girlfriend just needs a little space. Anyway, just be there for him. Good Luck to him.

Answer 6

Well some times you have to let your friend make that fall, because if you protect him, he will never know what to do in the next situation. all you can do is tell him the way you feel if he dont listen let it go.................................srry but thatz tough LOVE

Answer 7

I think he should get rid of her, it sound like she is looking to get someone else.