2006-11-02 01:08:37 · 27 answers · asked by bea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your looking for trouble !
stay away that is not your man ! ♠ some people call that a home wrecker
2006-11-02 01:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by 32606 3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run. Get out. Don't even start. You show no respect for anyone involved in a situation like this including yourself. Put the shoe on the other foot and think if you were in his wife's position. How would you feel if you found out your husband was having and affair? You've just asked this question hoping that someone would tell you it's ok. It's not ok. They're called marriage vows for a reason. And if he's not going to honor his own vows then you should honor them for his wife and yourself. Doing the right thing is usually the hardest thing but it is the best. Adultery makes everyone a sneak and a liar. And one lie leads to another and it ALWAYS ends up messy and ugly for everyone concerned; his FAMILY and friends; your family and friends. Just turn on your heel and go the other way.
2006-11-02 09:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by valducci53 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies like you even make it hard for married men to stop cheating on their wives. If all women were to NOT get involved with married men, they won't have any choice but to stick with their wives.
Its not cool, you will always be lied to, you can't question him, he won't leave his wife for you, you will always be a s.l.u.t. at the back of his mind, your bed will be cold most times, you can't phone him whenever you like,e.t.c.
Some women just enjoy the thought of being the ''other woman'' and they suffer from low self esteem/insecurity. My advice, find a single man and do things with him. The marriage institution has already been abused as it is and we don't want any more.
2006-11-02 09:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well looks like you have a problem.. and what are you doing with a guy who is married anyway? Use your brain and get someone your own age and single.. how would you like it if someone was messing around with your husband after you married..? wouldn't like it so much now would you? get a life girl and get your own man.. you are being really stupid.. They never leave there wives.. they just want the extra that you will give them with out having to pay for it..
2006-11-02 09:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that and my advice is to run away from the relationship and the man. Run as far and a fast as you can.
Getting involved with a married man is wrong. The man is a jerk: he is cheating on his wife and perhaps family.
You do not want a man who is cheating on his wife because he will do exactly the same thing to you: the man has no morals.
2006-11-02 09:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you engage in a relationship with a man knowing he is already married, it will come back to you 10 times worse....it is called karma, messing with married men is just wrong....find a single guy.
2006-11-02 09:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lori W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should not do that! How would you feel if you had a husband, and he decided to have an affair with a woman you hadn't met.
I couldn't stand being cheated on, or cheating on someone else. And even if he does 'leave' her for you, how would you ever feel safe in the knowledge that he wouldn't do the same for you?
2006-11-02 09:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not be with a guy who is already married for the simple fact that if he will cheat on his wife with you then he will cheat on you. The saying is " Once a cheater always a cheater"
2006-11-02 09:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on now what is wrong wid u he is a commited man do u think u would be able to live wid the guilt that because of you a family is now ripped apart. Come on get a lil serious n think carefully............. k pls dont mess up your life n also someone elses
Mail me if u want at ajfear88@yahoo.co.in
Regards
AJ
2006-11-02 09:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run far away. Its no good. The only thrill is you two secretly being together. But I betcha if he leaves his wife for you, it wouldnt be as fun anymore and he might do the same to you. How would you like for some girl to take your husband if you had one?
2006-11-02 09:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sonyja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it i guess,,he is not available and until he is,,he is out of bounds,,dont lower yourself to a bit of meat on the side,,if he isnt happy with his wife he has the option to see if he can improve the marriage or end it,,these decisions are not for you to make or push for,,he may just see how eager you can be for him and start to tell you he and his wife are splitting up in a matter of months so why wait, giz a kiss,,,there,s the bed,,see you wednesday for another meeting.wont that be grand.
2006-11-02 09:13:27 · answer #11 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋