im almost 25 and ive never had a girlfriend, (which just sux) how else could you describe it, i cant work it out, i make decent money, im not an idiot, (i hope not anyway) i treat all people with respect, im open and fun loving, my standards are defenetly are not to high, im not a neady person, all i want is to find a nice friendly girl how likes to travel have fun, id even support her fully in eveyway, just to hang around me, (WHY THE HELL CANT I FIND ANYONE).
2006-11-02 00:54:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should stop cursing God, then maybe he'll help you find someone.
2006-11-02 01:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I was 24 and I had only had 2 dates (to school functions). I chose not to date because I was more of an introvert geek of a guy. I knew that I wasn't the normal specimen on the planet, so I took action. I changed my hair, my clothes, shoes - the whole bit. I also knew that I had to break out of my shell - that was the hardest part. I enlisted the help of a good friend to help me meet girls, and I got into a little dating. When I did meet my wife to be, it was in a totally unrelated way, but I was prepared by that time to be able to attract her attention. Good luck in your quest - we are in the minority, but you have a few out there in the same boat
2006-11-02 01:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Doug R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably going about it the wrong way...try bathing on a regular basis, and by that I mean DAILY! Spend some of that hard-earned cash on a decent wardrobe, and get a woman that dresses well to go with you when you start this new trend. Take a class or get involved in some activity where there are other people(read: women) attending and try to behave as nonchalantly as you can while you succeed at learning as much as you can and being as helpful to those who can't grasp the concepts as well as you...you'll get the attention of the hearts and that's a great start!
2006-11-02 00:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are coming off to strong. Relax, calm down, chill-out and all of that stuff. Is there one girl that catches your eye. If so, if she is single go right over and ask her to go do what ever with you, movie, lunch, a game of some sort. But if she says no then that is okay, just say okay and walk a way. Do not get angry because people can read that and it is a turn off. Just make yourself seem available with seeming needy.
2006-11-02 01:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darling, don't worry about it. You sound like you are trying to hard. Don't try and don't worry and that perfect someone will fall right into your lap. As for supporting her in every way DON"T DO IT. A woman likes to feel special, but if you spend all of your money on her then she will use you up and spit you out when you have no more money left. Buy her little things but don;t over do it.
I like it when my man (when he was over here) bought me dinner every now and then but I don't expect him to pay for things all the time. Like now when we talk to each other it is usually me that rings him as it is cheaper for us to do that, but what I'm trying to say is don't always pay for things let her help out at times.
Good luck with it all and remember when you least expect it a wonderful woman will be there for you.
2006-11-02 01:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Aunty Jules 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont get mad because you havent found someone.Your time will come.You just have to be patient.You cant expect to open the door and find a half decent girl.It takes time.Go out on the weekends.Go to the club go out or just go out and hang out with your friends and you will eventually find the rite girl for you.
2006-11-02 01:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by xxrlhoodratxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... it sounds like you have all the tools (unless your incredibly ugly). It's time to take the next level. Go out there and find her. Your obviously not the kind of guy girls want to chase or else they would have already. You're the kind they want chasing them. It's not a bad thing though. Just go out there and be confident and be yourself. Pursue a girl and it'll happen.
PS- Hit the gym if you can.
2006-11-02 01:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My oldest brother never had a girlfriend until he was 24 and he met her on the internet and they got married 8 months later. So there's still hope for you just hang in there and she'll come when you least expect it.
2006-11-02 00:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if its normal or not but I know your not the only one. I'm 24 and have been single for 5 years after having only one boyfriend. All this means is that all the girls you have met are not worthy of you in any way. Your day will come. Try considering yourself lucky for not having to go through girl after girl after girl. Life is easier that way anyway.
2006-11-02 00:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by AmberKortni 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of women out there who would pretend to be your girlfriend just to use you. They are easy to find just go to your neighborhood bar. If you are looking for someone that you actually like then hang in there she'll come along sooner or later. Don't let the little head rule the big head (easier said than done).
2006-11-02 01:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by ChaliQ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, it happens (it's hard to meet girls)
Maybe you should try looking in new places - start doing different things, going different places, take up a new hobby. There's no guarantees - but just keep trying (I know how frustrating it can be)
But don't worry... believe it or not, there are a lot of other guys out there who don't have girlfriends either
2006-11-02 01:01:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋